Theresa Evans
Bio
I am a woman on fire for the love of life and being able to reach one life at a time through my words. If I can reach one then I can teach one the art of healing one's self from the inside out all mentaly
Stories (118/0)
Away
Walk away from people who put you down. Walk away from fights that will never be resolved. Walk away from trying to please people who will never see your worth. The more you walk away from things that poison your soul, the healthier you will be. (MW Facets)
By Theresa Evans22 days ago in Motivation
Talk
Some people talk about you because they lost the privilege to talk to you. (2 Pac Out Law Immortals) There is a big difference between talking to someone and talking at someone. Most people do not even realize the difference because they are so used to doing it without much thought. Talking to someone means actively listening to what the other person is saying and showing that you are interested in what they have to say. It is essential to hear them out because the speaker may be close to you in some way, or you may simply respect the person, so you make sure to give them your attention at that moment.
By Theresa Evans7 months ago in Motivation
Begging
Don’t beg. Don’t chase. Don’t be needy. Relax. When you relax, it’ll come to you. (Quotes) Don’t get caught up begging for someone or something to stay with you because it is a waste of time and energy. Begging is a form of insecurity, and it can come from childhood or adulthood traumas that have not yet been addressed and healed.
By Theresa Evans7 months ago in Motivation
Learning about you.
Learn to trust people's energy and not their words. (Brother Ben X) Learning to trust other individual's energy is not easy, but it can be done. I turned fifty in August, and I honestly have to say that my mental state of mind is entirely different now. I am honored to see fifty years of age and reflect on all my accomplishments. I am incredibly proud of myself for setting my goals and boundaries accordingly for me, not for others.
By Theresa Evans7 months ago in Motivation
Apology
Some people aren't speaking to you because they owe you an apology. (Joker attitudes) (Freeman, M.) This quote is accurate because we know someone is acting this way towards you. After all, they know exactly what they said and did to you and know they should and need to apologize for their behavior, but you already know that they will not. Most of the time, the person who does need to apologize to someone else is more than likely letting their pride get in the way of them doing so. Now, this doesn't mean that the individual is the wrong person. It could simply mean that their background has not shown them the correct way to apologize to others when they know they are wrong. I am not the kind of person to walk around with an S on my chest like I am bigger and better than the next person. If I know for a fact that I have said or done anything to someone else that I know may have verbally, mentally, emotionally, or physically hurt you, then I am woman enough to take the time to say I am sorry for whatever I have said or did to the person.
By Theresa Evans7 months ago in Motivation
Reactions
I don’t react, but trust me, I notice everything. (Believer) We all deal with different situations, but the real question is, how do you react to the situations when they come your way? We all know that each situation must be handled differently, and I say this because we all react differently no matter what we are facing. Interacting with others daily is not easy because you have to make sure you are in the right place mentally before you begin to correct someone else for their actions towards you.
By Theresa Evans7 months ago in Motivation
The Beast
Don't consider my kindness as my weakness. The beast in me is sleeping, not dead. (Life Mello) The beast inside of me is never dead. She is only sleeping. It amazes me how others will tell you how you should practice better time management skills and then look at you like you are the one who truly needs to do this when they are the ones who need to do the very thing they are asking you to do. Then they have the nerve to come back and ask you to add another task to help them, which I find funny. You can not come to me and ask me to do something personally for you, and then once you get what you need from me to help you out at that moment, turn around and tell me not to help someone else.
By Theresa Evans8 months ago in Humans
Pay Attention
I paid attention when I didn't get the invite. I paid attention when I didn't get a thank you. I paid attention when I didn't get the apology. I paid attention when a room would go silent when I entered. I paid attention when folks believed lies about me and never asked me. I paid attention when they didn't show up for me. I paid attention when my important life events didn't even get a congratulatory phone call or text. I paid attention to the disrespect, and yes, I took it personally. So now I rarely leave my bubble, my space, and I choose my peace every time. If I make it to an event, I'm invited to consider it an honor. I raised the bar for who has the pleasure to be around MY SPIRIT. Because I have a good one. Done fighting spirits that were created to take me off course. (Pink, P. Victims' Advocate)
By Theresa Evans11 months ago in Motivation