Justice for All
"Justice delayed, is justice denied" "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."
Tattooed, Employed and has a Psych degree..Always on the look out for a group of Avengers.
Dating the Good Guys..
Nothing touches my heart faster than a good guy. The simple, uncomplicated kinda normal. That has always been my normal..with one exception in 2019. Before him it was Waffle house and movies, on the weekends. After him it was my FBI agent, whose daughter I would take to get her nails done. Then him. He was and remains the worst thing I ever bought coffee for. There have been a few first dates that should have been second dates, empty I love you's by them, and a million I would have dated thems. I always wonder what it would be like to be their girlfriend-. I am always a forever kinda girl. I fall in love with little sweet things about a guy, things like taking out my trash, or sending me a lesson plan. Looks don't really cover it but they don't ever hurt, but an IQ, support and care simply is everything to a woman like me.
Why a Witness should never be left Unprotected..
I know what the FBI should and needs to be investigating even if they don't. You don't leave a witness to find their way to law enforcement when they should be being protected until they can testify. You don't let her be scared to death by criminals for three years, while they are threatening her, while her ex boyfriend is making threats to her life and the department won't do anything.
City of Gainesville, Ga PD
This one is a hard one for me because I hate to judge an entire department by three or four of their officers, who when I have met some of their rookies in passing are good people. They really try. A whole department or their Command Staff behaving like children is understandable. Just a few officers, is a little harder.
How Landlords are victimizing Tenants..
Pre-Pandemic there were checks and balances for landlord behavior. The problem is now they simply think they can do anything they want. Enter mine- I work every day almost literally and what to I get in return for paying rent -oh wait until you see the pictures.
What I need right now is you. Just you. I need you to make the world disappear as we get lost in each other. No words, just your body and mine. Your strength enveloping me allowing me the safety of surrender. Letting me let you be the only thing in the universe and me in yours. Simply transfixed on each other.
Self Care in Romantic Relationships
The argument that there should be no self care in romantic relationships is a fallacy. While you are part of an interdependent system, two pieces can't function without some balance. Without it, interdependence becomes codependency, and can even become separate functioning lives.
The Psychology of a Dominant ..
The best Doms I have ever had had no idea they even were. They were men who were very often unaware they had these traits. Oddly enough they were in helping fields- law enforcement, fire, lawyers. The were well educated, strong and kind. They did not have a need for control or power. They had this innate desire that could never be met by the average woman yet they would treat their women like gold- very often they were emasculated for their efforts. The phrase reads " a Dominant needs to needed and a submissive needs to be wanted." They have these huge hearts buried under stoic masks that they present to the world. The are the white knights who will hold a woman's hand in her weakest moment, and flinch at her tears or an injury to her and do anything to protect her.
Carebear 2021..The Best Of
This year has been especially hard. The last few have been very very hard. Between the pandemic and the obstructions in trying to get anyone to rectify their mistakes or anything done. There has not been a lot of progress on the big things but given what I have been through I always want to recognize the best of the best.
Care Bear Theory Lesson Plan
Care Bear Organizational Psychology Theory was created in May 2019 as a response to the actions of the Pooler Police Department and their continued violation of my rights while violating the law. While fleeing domestic violence of one of their officers, trying to get to someone I knew who would assist me in ending the abuse, of which I had many friends in well educated places, I was and have continued to be threatened, harassed and had without any cause my life fundamentally altered. Had a dead car battery not occurred, I would have been on my way to law school or to get a Masters in Counseling to focus on trauma counseling for first responders. No such luck when a police officer and his buddies on the force decide to threaten and harass a woman who was merely trying to get to friends, and right the mistakes of Chatham County Assistant Attorney Jennifer Davenport who had fundamentally altered the law by defrauding the Chatham County Superior Court and the Ga Supreme Court single handly.
When I think of wasted moments- they are moments without you. We both have lives that demand our attention, jobs and obligations, things that have to come first. They are things we have to do but they are moments away from you. Tu me manques..I am missing from you, you are missing from me.
Carebear Organizational Theory Part Two..
When we talk about systems working together we have to look at the pieces. For example the structure themselves, the functioning of the individual enties and how they function with other systems. There is always a cause and effect.