Justice for All
"Justice delayed, is justice denied" "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."
Tattooed, Employed and has a Psych degree..Always on the look out for a group of Avengers.
The Psychology of an Alpha Submissive...
Men have always tried to master me.. they had never been able to completely from CEO's to lawyers to even police officers. There was always a Domtourage in the wings to get me through the time without one, and it took all of them to be able to replace when there wasn't one, which she was always grateful for. Men always fell in love with me, without me even trying..not of my doing and mostly without me even knowing it.
The Modern Maslow Hierarchy of Needs
Maslow posited that to move up in life, tiers of needs needed to be met before an individual could essentially level up. However even he saw the fallacy in the original statement that the perception was that each need must be 100 percent satisfied before the next need could emerge and be met.
To the Media
Cancel culture has gone too far. When a rape victim is silenced by Facebook for telling her story 10 times in a month, when Facebook thinks that it is not a story when police officers commit a Federal RICO violation and the mainstream media has ignored. If I was a black man filming a traffic stop I would be given $20,000, but for telling my story so other women don't have their sexual assault covered up, their lives destroyed who was a member of law enforcement she has her Facebook Account disabled. It is not a hate crime to tell people what was done to you and continues to be done to you because Police Chief's including people that were your friends won't return a phone call. If the mainstream media doesn't want to hear it, someone has to be the one to tell it. You can't ignore sexual assault, and felonies by law enforcement for over two years and expect it is okay when you are endangering others lives. The power should not belong to People more concerned about "Where to higher a housekeeper than that the local law enforcement has had evidence of a rape that even Juvenile Court Judges have known about for over a year , and prevent a woman from expecting someone inside the state of Georgia to think it is wrong. How is that "violating community standards", It is a violation of community standards to prevent someone from speaking about their experience and the violation of their rights. It is a violation of community standards for police officers to break the law and no one to do anything about it.
Falling in Love...
There are some things we can't explain..Love is one of them. There is more to just how I feel but I am afraid to say anything. It's easier to pretend it is just a chemistry based on the things I want you to do to my body. That would be simple for most people..but not me.
She had bumped into him on accident. Going to pick up food at Applebees, she had run into her best friend, drunk in the bar. Of course she insisted he not drive, and while she tried to get it into his thick skull, a blow intended for him, hit her. Dazed she had planted him on his ass, just by knocking his feet out from under him.
Protected Valkyrie ...
Someday she would not have to remind herself that the words and actions of her “friends” and the people who had hurt her had happened. She still did every day just to remind herself it wasn’t her fault, and it had all happened even if no one would even return an email and do the right thing. No one should not have to live with the things that happened to her and everyone should have listened and done something. They were things no one should ever be put through or forced to carry with them every day. That would always be the case. It would never change that it happened and everyone she trusted and loved had turned their back on her. Until someone listened she would always have to do it because it was what happened and continued to be. She hadn’t changed, she had been forced to see the uglist side of law enforcement, EMS and have no one that should be making sure it didn’t happen to anyone else or keep her from being afraid .
The Psychology of the submissive..
Some fundamental theories apply when dealing with a Warrior Princess Submissive..aka the Unicorn Submissive She does not relish pain..the motivation for her is based in bettering the world. She does not fight for the fight but the cause. Pain only breaks her down and prevents her from being able to continue whatever battle it is.
The Road to E 911 Dispatch..
In 2012 I resigned after almost 8 years as a Juvenile Probation Officer in Pima County. It broke my heart to turn in my badge and kevlar. I still remember turning it in a month before I left, and going back to my office with tears in my eyes. I loved my coworkers, my job but it was something I had to do for me. I will never forget Teri Franco's words "You need to go to law school."
The Emotional Mistress
The reason an Emotional Mistress even exists is because simply there is a fundamental breakdown between two people who are involved and neither will simply say "I am not living this way." Instead of thinking about love and relationships it has turned to things like tug of wars over kids, the annoyances of selling a house or splitting up property. A point has been reached that is past fixing and it just a matter of someone being grown up enough to set aside the practicals and do something healthy.
Healthy Relationships in First Responders
Having been a First Responder and a girlfriend of First Responders I can write this from experience along with the psychology degree. I have dated and been a fiancee to an Air force Flight engineer, an ICE Supervisor, a firefighter, a deputy sheriff, a patrol officer, an ATF Agent and a FBI Agent. Everyone of these came with a a second family and a second job. It doesn't matter what branch, agency or uniform they wear, there is still an unwritten responsibility that comes with it. I have raised an entire dorm full of Air force guys while getting a college degree and managed to keep them all alive and had to throw in getting their performance apprasisals fixed so they can be promoted for free- not a small feat, added in with raising a USAF K-9 officer's daughter because she did not have a mom- and she was the light of my life even though she would steal my Starbucks on a regular basis.
The Third Rule of Carebear
The Third rule of Care bear.. We never remain silent on matters of injustice and we always support each other. One thing I have always believed is that when there is an emergency we always stand up for each other. We never let one person solve or sacrifice for the stake of the all. Where injustice is allowed to flourish it becomes a cancer. Only in using our voices and our actions can we change things. Where one person is left to carry on bearing the burden, the all is not made better. Silence is never the answer. When you are silent, it is an act of agreement with injustice. Where one suffers, we suffer as a family at the pain of our brother or sister.
A Very Merry Care Bear X-mas
Though very far away and not able to be there for Xmas, I want to send Happy Thoughts your way. Each of you have found a special place in my heart for many reasons. There is a very good chance that most of you don't know it but you have become the random family when my "family" wasn't. Not a single one of you are replaceable.