Female masturbation used to be taboo; viewed as either uncouth or downright sinful, it has quickly become normalised. Despite this, a study published by PLoS One found that one in five of the women they studied had never masturbated in their lives. Not once. In fact, until recently it has been less common for women to talk about masturbation with even their closest friends. Why? Well, it has a lot to do with cultural and religious views about sex, of course, but there are also many personal reason which could come into play. It could also have a lot to do with the fact that the benefits of masturbation are rarely discussed, despite being numerous. This is not hugely surprising; sex experts like Dr Petra Boynton often answer questions from women who have no idea where to start.

Orgasms – they can be a source of pleasure and well-being – but also a source of sheer hell. When you’re experiencing difficulty having an orgasm, the whole point of orgasms quickly disappears.

I'm the type of girl who is shy because I'm awkward and awkward because I'm shy. It’s a vicious cycle that I’m struggling to break.

Adam is my younger brother that has always been a pain in my butt, but I loved him anyway. He was always perverted since growing up in his teens. He tried everything to be a sex fiend. He was not the cutest guy or even looked attractive to most women, so you can figure how much sex he actually got. I have found him jumping out of windows and running down the street with husbands and boyfriends chasing him.

Today I walked in the house from work to find my husband sitting around and not having anything done that I asked him to do. I immediately told him to assume the position so that I could take off my shoes from a hard, long day. He jumped us and hurried over to where I was standing and got down on his hands and knees in front of me. I turned around and sat down on his back like he was my new piece of furniture.

Listen, gentlemen, it's called a 'Gentlemen's Club', which means that one must behave as such. Though it is part of the entertainer's job to create a sexy and fun experience for the patrons that walk through the door that does not then mean that regular polite behaviors are negated. Sometimes it's because it's fun to play king for a night or sometimes it's inexperience but the behavior sometimes goes really badly really quickly. Here is what not to do at the strip club, guys:

A woman enters into a Dom-Sub relationship.

Throughout my adulthood, I’ve experimented with toys. I’ve seen them evolve from cheap plastic chunks to high tech sex treats that give you complete control over the sensations you feel. That being said, I’ve always been a bit leery of “programmable” sex toys.

Ah, the many things you can now get done to your crotch. Your most intimate female part has never received so much attention! From the confusing, and unnecessary, to the downright dangerous, here are some of the latest trends in vaginal upgrading.

Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately?

This weekend, I attended my first fetish convention and it was quite an eye-opener.

Men. Society views you as always ready for sex. There are books about it, tv-series that showcase it – and let’s not get started on how pornographic films portray your libido (and erectile capacity!). If I could only tell people one thing about sexual desire in men and people with penises, it would likely be this: it isn’t a constant. And there are a lot of reasons why sexual desire changes.

Dirty talk has always made me feel awkwardly shy, which is totally out of character for me to be shy about anything. Awkward, on the other hand, well let’s just say I don’t need to flirt, I seduce with my awkwardness. But back to my point, I believe the main reason dirty talk is foreign to me is because I don’t curse in my day-to-day speech.

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The soft, supple boots made no noise as Tolek carefully stepped through the underbrush of the forest floor. He crouched is tall, lean muscled body to keep his body stable as his light blue eyes scanned through the trees. In his left hand he held his bow and arrow ready to be knocked at the first sight of some form of prey. The prey didn’t need to be much since it was only him. He was heading, by foot, cross country in search of work. It had been several days since he had left the dying village giving his dark hair to grow out some and his beard was very scruffy.

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The rocks I perched myself on seemed harder to get up to today - my body was tired. I always prided myself in being lithe and strong, especially as a trainer, but this week was getting to me.

The media often talks about men pleasuring themselves – by which I mean there’s a lot of jokes made about masturbation and genitalia, but only for men. This is because there are a lot of men in the media, they are all over television shows, movies, politics. Sure, there have been improvements over the years, but we still have a lot of work to do. That said, when remarks about the area between one’s legs are made, they are often about men, and not about men. In fact, the closest thing to comments being made about female genitals is a John Oliver sketch featuring his Catheter Cowboy saying, “and that little feller there is what we call the clitoris,” mispronouncing that final word.

Women over the age of 30 are either feeling really sexual, or suppressing it. And I’m talking to the ones that suppress it. What’s wrong with the word sexy anyway?

Shame; noun, a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.

Today I walked in the house from work to find my husband sitting around and not having anything done that I asked him to do. I immediately told him to assume the position so that I could take off my shoes from a hard, long day. He jumped us and hurried over to where I was standing and got down on his hands and knees in front of me. I turned around and sat down on his back like he was my new piece of furniture.

Once you have been around kink for a while you find that there are two kinds of play that can happen in general. The first between a Top and a bottom having a scene. It’s not a relationship but just something fun for them both. No D/s, just an experience. We all do this one for sure. Then you discover play within a D/s or M/s dynamic and things can change for you. My Mistress is a sadist and she also thought of herself as masochist in her past. I am a masochist and these two things go together very well. At some point, you have to ask yourself why you do this? Why do I love to take pain for her? The easy answer is that she is my Mistress and this is what she wants. I don’t necessarily agree with that thinking. I believe that you have to want to take that pain. I also think that it has to be about more than just the pain. It’s the connection and more so for me my desire to suffer for her.

This article is for sure long overdue. I haven’t posted one on the intriguing world of kinks and fetishes for what feels like actually forever. Honestly, I have to admit researching for these articles is always the most fun for me. I’m just as surprised as you all are half the time at the wild things people do in their everyday life. Just think any stranger you pass on the street could be the king or queen of kinks. Wash your hands kids!

Female masturbation used to be taboo; viewed as either uncouth or downright sinful, it has quickly become normalised. Despite this, a study published by PLoS One found that one in five of the women they studied had never masturbated in their lives. Not once. In fact, until recently it has been less common for women to talk about masturbation with even their closest friends. Why? Well, it has a lot to do with cultural and religious views about sex, of course, but there are also many personal reason which could come into play. It could also have a lot to do with the fact that the benefits of masturbation are rarely discussed, despite being numerous. This is not hugely surprising; sex experts like Dr Petra Boynton often answer questions from women who have no idea where to start.

Orgasms – they can be a source of pleasure and well-being – but also a source of sheer hell. When you’re experiencing difficulty having an orgasm, the whole point of orgasms quickly disappears.

Welcome to early 2020, where social distancing and quarantine-ing have become the norm. Thankfully, there are some ways to stay kinky in the bedroom, and spice up solo sex, to help you and your partner stay connected during this time of isolation.

First thing is first, sex and sexuality is nowhere near as complicated or confusing as we’re making it out to be. The confusing and complicated parts show up when you realize there’s a difference between intimacy, physical intimacy, and sex.

My unpopular opinion is, that if autocunnilingus was physically possible, we would all do it. Yes, even you Karen.

It’s 5:17 am. I’m laying on the couch wondering where life will take me now. How will I survive once June 1st comes? I publicly announced on Twitter yesterday that I will no longer be involved in any form of sex work as of June 1st. My main job is Escorting. I quit porn in 2013 and luckily have never gone back to filming. I have yet to be done with all of it. I have tried more than once to stop escorting, but my financial responsibilities always led me back to the dark industry I have come to loathe.

Victor dismounted from his roan in the stable yard handing the reins over to a stable hand while also telling them to take the five rabbits hanging off his saddle to the inn’s cook. Victor was just below average in height at five foot seven inches with thin build though heavily muscled from his bow hunting. He was an expert marksman which he had honed over the years. He was also able to fletch his own arrows, but he couldn’t craft his own skinning knife so he commissioned the local blacksmith to make him one which he set off to go get as the evening approached.

The princess was born a beautiful dark hair baby, but she was born unable to tolerate any cloth that was used, be it cotton or leathers. The king was at a loss. He called out for every material that could be found to attempt to get his daughter clothes. Time passed with nothing being found leaving her to grow up running around naked.

Umi's smile was so infectious, I had seen it several times through comment/ pic post within the group. This semi- private Facebook group for local lesbians was a random place of interest on my Facebook experience; due to the fact most of topics of discussions are immature and just dull. I was rarely mentally stimulated with the discussion post but I would post a few pics out of half interest of the responses. However, Umi's pic released my cynical attitude and I gave in and commented with simple emojis, yes the silly one with the hearts and the other with the tongue poking out. Umi caught my attention. She was visibly much much younger; hmm.... the same age as Mateo; my recent Milk Baby. I had for the most part of my love relationships dealt with older women or men. Umi was closer in age to my daughter. Yet, I wanted to probe more to see what she was into and all about.

I went to an all-boys catholic high school in the early 2000s which means I had my fair share of rude, uneducated conversations about sex as a teenager.

Sometimes I want the best of both worlds. I want an actual story, first-class acting and production values, but I also want real-looking, real-sounding, gasping, shaking, moaning, hardcore sex. Is that too much to ask for?

What island in the world has the most beautiful women? This article will definitely answer that question.

When Alberto, Julia, Margarita and Stefano were teenagers, the "nudes" didn't have that name, they were simply photographs with little or no clothes. Blackberrys were still in fashion and sending or receiving a good quality picture was a feat.

Sexy lingerie has been designed and sold for a purpose. That is, to make the wearer of the lingerie feel and appear beautiful and sexy. And, it is not just for beautiful women in their late teens and twenties. Middle-aged and even elderly women can feel and look both beautiful and sexy if tastefully photographed.

There's not many porn videos you can look back on with nostalgia I personally think. Many are not like your classic 'clean films' produced by big shots up in the Hollywood Hills. Many might disagree with me as much porn does come out of Hollywood these days. Yet to make a classic you need a memorable model and they don't come much more memorable than Emma Starr. Standing at 5ft 8 inches the San Diego, California native is 48 years old and has measurements of 34DD-24-34. Starr was one of the staples of the very first Naughty America website and did some classic scenes for the organisation. She mainly played the seductive teacher and even went as far to make her own website 'teacher themed.'

No pun intended, but the website 'Mommy Blows Best' tends to blow hot and cold with it's scenes. While I've watched some cracking scenes starring Anna Bell Peaks; I've watched some barely understandable stuff from Marta La Croft. It's to be expected I suppose and with so much competition out there producers are forced to keep churning out content. While they tend to specialise in the 'Blowjob' category of scenes, this little number tends to go a bit further. Starring the very desirable Romi Rain as the stepmother to Bill Bailey, this well shot scene seems to go above and beyond the call of duty.

Big dicks are always in style. When that cock is attached to an alleged straight guy, well that amplifies the hotness of the male performer. These facts allow for producers to come up with scenarios that will intrigue the public and make them a ton of money.

Culturally, we condemn paid sex, but when performed with respect and care, it can be life-changing for both parties. This is an account of how I discovered a highly unconventional way to help a troubled woman handle jealousy.

I am the worlds most jealous person. I am not by any stretch of the imagination, breezy. In fact, I can safely say this word will never be used to describe me. Even the thought of my boyfriend merely looking at a girl, makes me want to run away and be single for the rest of my life.

This writing was inspired by a photo that I saw on FetLife. A sub showed a picture of a coffee pot and two coffees. The caption started off by saying that “this will be unpopular to the masses”. One of the things that this sub does is serve her partner coffee when requested. When did kink get so silly that we have to label a service that we do as unpopular because you think it’s not what the masses would like? That is so sad to me. My Mistress loves coffee and I serve her coffee from my knees on the regular. I also negotiated that if we ever add another submissive to our dynamic that serving coffee is mine. It’s that important to me and us. I could care less about what other people think of it because it’s very important to us.

If you want to shake things up in the bedroom, few things make more of an impact than bondage!

There’s a variety of sex toys in the market-all at different price points, and with different textures and purposes- decision making can be a little intimidating. I’ve selected a few of the most pleasurable toys recommend by experts and with the best reviews. Waiting ahead, 10 different toys with one main focus-to make you orgasm.

I'm the type of girl who is shy because I'm awkward and awkward because I'm shy. It’s a vicious cycle that I’m struggling to break.

As the world shuts down and the masses move indoors, one thing is for sure: there’s going to be a helluva lotta sex happening. If you’re locked up with a partner…lucky fucking you. Literally. You must be fucking all the time.

If you’re dealing with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, choosing the right lubricant is even MORE important than the right set of dilators.

When was it that rotting flesh devils who sucked a person dry of blood until their lungs rasped out their last became sex objects? Vampires and sex seem intertwined together. Before Twilight, before Anne Rice, and before Dracula, vampires were seen as devils or demons. Soulless husks who preyed on the living.

Her iconic role as Mrs. Robinson was an older married woman that tried to seduce the much younger Benjamin Braddock. Her role in The Graduate set the standard for what every cougar would be judged by: sexy, seductive, smart and mature. Although Anne Bancroft starred in dozens of movies throughout her career, the award-winning actress kept to a very private life away from the camera. As one of three sisters in a modest and close-knit Italian family, she centered her world around her family. Up until her death in 2005, Bancroft spent her personal time with her husband–the iconic Mel Brooks–and their son, away from the paparazzi. In a vintage interview with Viva magazine, she opened up about her beliefs, her career and why she decided to stay away from the spotlight after marriage. In the 21st century, age has become more of a perception than reality. Words such as cougar have become terms of endearment for a culture that has an enlightened notion of age and the role it plays in relationships. Anne Bancroft’s progressive view is as relevant today as when she originally spoke to Viva in the mid 1970s.

Before the sexual revolution enabled pornography to go mainstream (do Penthouse and Playboy sound familiar to you?) adult magazines, or ‘girlie mags’, were already in successful circulation. Now, all of these years later, you might infer that the precursors to mainstream distribution were tamer than their successors; no nipple means less suggestive, right? However, the titles and overall aesthetic of vintage porn are in some ways more lewd and crude than their modern counterparts, more akin to so-called ‘hardcore’ porn which often highlights specific sexual fetishes.