I BEG TO DIFFER

There’s nothing wonderful about begging to be loved. You don’t have to ask anyone to stay with you. You don’t have to ask anyone to come back into your life either.

When I see women constantly striving to keep males in their lives, I pity them. You shouldn’t be begging for love. Love should be mutual. There’s nothing as emotionally exhausting and unpleasant as begging a man who doesn’t want to be with you to stay in your life. You don’t have to beg for affection. You don’t have to beg to be loved. If what you are feeling for the other person is not reciprocated, leave. You don’t have to ask someone to be with you. They are not your oxygen. You have your whole life ahead of you. Learn to let go of unrequited love. You don’t have to beg for attention, affection, and commitment. Learn to love yourself above any relationship.

Begging someone who doesn’t want to be in your life is undermining your self-worth and hurting yourself. When you keep that up, you will undoubtedly lose your self-worth, your self-esteem, and your confidence when you should be in a reciprocal relationship. If someone doesn’t readily give you the love, attention, and affection you provide to them, they are not worth your time. Leave that person alone.

No one is worth such wasted efforts. Stop groveling and begging for affection from anyone who doesn’t want to be with you, and even when the individual accepts to be in your life, you will suffer in the relationship because you are the only one who tries to make it work. and the worst part of it is that, if you beg your partner to stay in a dating relationship, you will keep begging them to stay in the marriage.

You don’t want that, do you?

So quit trying to force commitment or begging for love and attention. You may make yourself indispensable. The truth is commitment is not something you force or beg to happen. Instead, it is a natural effect of being an irreplaceable life partner in a relationship.

Indication that you are asking for a commitment:

You Revolve Your World Around Him

You are always available, you're the one who always makes calls or texts, you’re eager to satisfy him, you sacrifice your time and efforts, you go out of your way to make him pleased, You get nervous when you don’t hear from, you schedule everything around him, you’re good with being unhappy if it means they’re pleased, you stalk his social media profiles simply so you can know what he’s doing.

Ignoring Red Flags

Just to have someone in your life, you disregard the fact that your spouse is a pathological liar, unserious with his life, or into a shady lifestyle.

It’s like when someone tells you that they’re an only child and then, later on, discloses having siblings.

If you’re willing to look past the fact that they have three children by three separate women, or that their small chat consists completely of talking about their job and how much they hate it.

Instead of asking questions, you chose to disregard the whole situation.

You’re yearning for love.

There are times when we can become so thirsty for a company that we convince ourselves to look the other way despite all evidence pointing against us.

You are indigent.

Indigent is an indication that you are not in a healthy relationship. It is an indication of insecurity and lack confidence. You don’t know how to be happy being alone since you only feel entire when someone else seems to validate who you are as a person by loving or liking you, which can change at any time.

If you’re continually trying to obtain attention from your partner in order to feel good about yourself and your place in the world, then there might be some significant issues going on inside of you.

Neediness is the reverse of independence. If you are codependent or too dependent in the relationship, it reflects a sense of poor self-worth.

The needier you are, the less happy you will be in your relationship and with your life.

If this describes your circumstance, it might be time to reevaluate everything. Begging for love is just going to attract someone who are going to take advantage of your vulnerabilities, and that is no way for anyone to live.

For everyone to live their best life, we must learn how not to be needy when it comes to relationships with others.

Be careful that you are not hurting yourself in the course of pursuing love.

Doing some actions to grab your boyfriend’s attention can equal running around with a large billboard that says “Looking for Love”.

The upshot of these activities is that they send a message of despair.

IF ALL THIS AIN'T BEGGING FOR LOVE, I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS.