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Women Only Need Your Unconditional Love—Not Expensive Gifts

There are a lot of men who mistakenly think that they have to kill themselves in order to please their women.

By The Lost GirlPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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You're not obligated to provide me a fancy home. You are not required to donate my pricey jewellery. I don't need a flashy vehicle to drive. Simply give me your heart, and I'll make sure to repay the favour with mine. Just give me your love, and I'll do everything in my power to keep you and I happy.

You might not be the richest man in the area. You might not be the owner of a sprawling home or millions of wealth. You might not always possess the brains of a scholar or the good looks of a movie star. You might not be a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist. Even so, you might not be the best in your field.

It's possible that you lack any expertise at all. For as long as you know how to love – completely and totally — none of that will matter to me. Perhaps you don't always know how to make me smile. There may be a few errors here and there. We're going to have some bumps in the road. And everything is OK. Simply show me the most admirable form of love you can.

There are a lot of men who mistakenly think that they have to kill themselves in order to please their women. And although having that attitude can be really admirable, it is entirely unneeded. You don't have to lavish your wife with attention. She has only ever shown genuine interest in your affection.

I know that at times your profession may keep you very busy. I am aware that you may have other obligations in your life. I am aware of the fact that I won't constantly be in the lead. I am aware that I am not your entire universe. But all I want to know is if it comes down to it, you'll pick me. When all is said and done, I want to know that I will be your top priority.

I need you to understand that all I ever actually want is some of your time. Nothing can be used to purchase that. Fancy watches and pricey dinners can't make up for the time you spend with me. I don't require you to take me on a date to the most upscale eateries. I just need you to be able to communicate with me and feel a connection. All I ask is for you to speak to me honestly.

I want us to be able to develop the closest relationship imaginable. I want to have the opportunity to delve into the depths of your soul, and I want you to have the same opportunity with me. I want you to dig deeply into the core of who I am and to embrace every aspect of me. I want to look into your eyes for a long time and see into the past, present, and future of you. I want you to experience the fifty years that lie ahead of your life every time you kiss me. I want you to always feel the electricity of my passion whenever you touch me. I want you to always be able to hear the tone of my heart in my voice.

You need to understand how excited I am every time you tell me regarding the future you see for both of us. When you have your lofty aspirations for our future together, it makes me so happy. That's all wonderful. I also want you to understand that I would prefer it if you concentrated on the small pledges and promises that you make to me every day. I adore a man with excellent attention to detail; I adore a man who is constantly focused on small things because they are so important to him.

You should be the type of guy that would never take me for granted, in my opinion. Yes, I would adore it if you always kept your focus on the current greater picture.

However I also want you to pay attention to the smaller details. Because the connection will ultimately be composed of all these minor details.

I want you to keep your promise. Every commitment you make to me, I want you to keep. I want you to never waiver from the promise you made to me. Even when I make it tough for you to be loyal to me, I want you to do so. I need you to DECIDE to love me every day.

You don't have to give me everything you own. I just want you to love me completely. In that case,

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The Lost Girl

A Lost Girl is: A woman in her 20s, 30s (and beyond) who's more than a bit unsure about what she's doing with her life, the direction that she's headed and how to make changes for the better.

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