Forgiveness

This is something that many of us need to learn. Especially if one is trying to learn not to hold grudges. Forgiving is not mainly for the other person; it is usually for the self to growth. So that individual does not become bitter or unhappy. When we start to learn to forgive ourselves, we start to realize that the other person is only operating off of what they know. We have to understand that people are on their own paths and that we should not come from an egotistical point of view, but rather a point of view from the heart. With love. When we learn to not take others actions as our own, That is the energy we are claiming back, the energy that was taken by someone who was ungrateful. We must understand that, we were a lesson in that person life. For them to accept someone that is forgiving, just make sure that they do not keep breaking that forgiveness. One can only last so long without change or truth upon what is going on.

See, when an individual stays in a place of love, forgiveness is just natural. We do have to make sure that, the other person does know that they are forgiven f0r what they have done to you. No matter what the destruction is. The tough part about all this, is forgiving yourself. Because we get in our own ways. You see we can be ignorant to what is happening right in front of you. It can be simply because you neglect to use logic, you want to be ignorant by love. Instead of listening to your intuition. We have to learn to forgive ourselves for us going threw this. This was a part of your path. This is something that you had signed up for, so we must come from a place of love. If we want others to change, we must change ourselves first. Everyone, that anyone truly meets, is just a mirror. In some way shape or form. When we think of some that had betrayed us. We have to not see there ego, we must see their hurt inner child. That is the person that truly needs a hug, love and to know that everything is ok. We must tend to our inner child, they require the unconditional love we have yet to find on this physical realm.

When someone tells you that they forgive you. Truly take it to heart. But, you can tell a person that is telling the truth and you can also tell if someone is lying to you. Simply by observing body motions, words, tones and most likely a reaction. All these things tell the level of genuine forgiveness of that person. But, either way. We need to learn how to truly forgive ourselves, that is when the healing truly happens. When we let go of stuff that affects our growth as a person. That is usually the where the most of any person’s trauma may come from. This is usually our inner critic, ego, shadow self, whatever your belief. It is that traumatic self that is hurt trying to stop you from doing something that hurt you in the past. We must, no matter what, must have to learn to forgive yourself before you should ask for forgiveness. Because how should someone receive forgiveness if they themselves truly not forgive themselves? Sub-consciously, we feel we truly deserve this type of feeling, well release it. No person in this physical realm deserves to hold onto a grudge, nor should the other person desperately, or act like they care for forgiveness or not.