Brandi Dexter
Bio
Writing stories is a way to express my unfiltered feelings and advice.
Animal lover
Truth Seeker
Stories (28/0)
The effects on slut shaming
I cried reading an article about slut shaming and how slut shaming have harmful effects on young women and older. Because this reminds me of a housemate of mine who triggered my memories. I think slut shaming is digusting. I remember watching MAFS , many people thought Olivia was doing revenge porn. She was'nt doing revenge porn because the image was not from a paywall on OnlyFans or steal it from a OnlyFans page. It was used to bully her. The image was from Dom's social media. Dom had no problem people seeing the image , but it was used to gossip about her.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
Growing up with a self centred father
I had the most happiest childhood when my parents were together and my granny visited Australia. He started to become more cold and unloving when he left my mum to marry a younger women who was about 10 years and half younger than him. He was more focused on pleasing a younger lady. Married her overseas and she had a baby with him so quick.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Families
The Australian Legal System
In Australia the two main sources of law are the parliament and the Courts. The parliament takes responsibility making most of the laws. This is civil law. They use statute law, and this is when elected politicians can have the power to make laws that can be applied in the federal or state parliament level. The parliament can dictate authority to others to set up legal rules. The parliament can make legislation. They can have power to create laws unlike the court.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Criminal
dealing with an ableist woman part 4
She claimed that everyone in the church knows that Bridget was a bad person and Bridget never invited her over to her house which was like 15 minute drive from hers. She bought Bridget a expensive car.She always said in her tarot cards that Bridget will be in big trouble with the police and she will get her money back , also she said that Bridget will try to be Sam’s best friend again but I will not allow her back into her life again. The bizarre twist was that her cancer will grow back in Jail with the horrible food.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
Dealing with ableist women part 3
She was using the poor young lad for sex and he had more stronger feelings more than she did. She dumped him for other guys and used Bridget to lie for her , tell Tim that she was in the USA when she dumped Tim to see other guys who had more money. Tim always blamed everything on the assistant Bridget when it was not fair, it had nothing to do with Bridget.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
Jen Shah
I started watching RHOSLC in late 2020 and watched the first season. Jen Shah came off very interesting to me. She had a big house , over the top lavish outfits and she had so many assistants.Her lavish lifestyle seemed legit and it was very short lived. Yet , i did not know what business she had and how she got her money from. The other ladies were more open on how they got their income from and how they started their companies. Andy Cohen was still curious how Jen got her money from and she gave Andy a bizzare response on how she runs her marketing companies. She told people in an interview post show that she was ' the wizard of Oz '.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Fiction
The truth about psychics
I don't know if i really should be sharing this story publicly. I was struggling as a person emotionally and that made me go down in a spiral.But i want to share this story from people who have secretly gone to psychics because you are struggling emotionally.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Journal
Stop targeting vulnerable young travellers
Over the summer of 2021, I was looking at Global Work and Travel. I was dreaming of going to Ireland on a work exchange. I was thinking of living there for a few months, working , meeting new people and perhaps do some genealogy research. I thought Global work and Travel would be awesome website if i worked more hours and saved up more money. I was telling a relative of mine , that it was a great idea and she had her concerns on the idea " is the website is safe ? ".
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Wander
Stop asking if disabled people are capable of driving
This is one of the questions about ableism that annoys me off. I am sure it will annoy disabled people. To question their capabilities when it's not your business to know or judge on. I remember I met a asian guy off hinge in Max Brenner at Robina.He asked me " are you capable driving yourself ?" . I had to be honest with him even though it was a challenging question to answer and i would be more comfortable talking about with a medical specialist or a doctor.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
The downfalls of Ancestry
Not disclosing family names for privacy reasons* I have started my ancestry account back in August 2021.This was a present from my mum and my maternal grandma who is still alive. It was interesting to know more about my paternal side of my family because they lived on the other side of the world and both of my paternal grandparents were dead.They died very quickly because most people are dead over +75.My grandpa died in a fishing accident before my fathers 21st birthday , he died at the age of 48 in 1986. My grandma died when my dad was about 41 and she died at the age of 64.My granny had my father in her early twenties.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Families
Only Fans & Sex Work
I have nothing againist any woman who decides to do a only fans. Some may be students at university or college who do online sex work because their jobs in retail and other industries may be time consuming and may do sex work that they can work their own hours , be their own boss. They may try and keep their hustle secret from their parents due to the fear of embarassment and discomfort.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Filthy
Cure ableism
Looking at YouTube and seeing videos of developmentally delayed children with severe autism and feeling shocked how the parents use their disability to make a profit.I am not going to mention certain names of YouTubers. It makes me sick they exploit their children’s meltdowns and lowest moments to put up on Youtube for the whole world to see and have a lot of able bodied parents and carers to comment. It’s horrible and inappropriate to see. Do not put your need for money over putting a video that may offend a group of neurodivergent people. Imagine yourself as severely autistic and non verbal not being able to consent yourself being filmed mostly a few days a week or every day. It’s better to make income somewhere else , instead of exploiting your severely autistic child on YouTube. I was on a reddit form about a YouTube channel and a person who has a mild form of autism and put herself in the severely autistic teenager shoes ,thinking it was A invasion of her privacy
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans