Brandi Dexter
Bio
Writing stories is a way to express my unfiltered feelings and advice.
Animal lover
Truth Seeker
Stories (28/0)
Sex worker meets surfer boy
In early 2023, nearly a year ago today, I found myself on a sperm donor app, seeking a viable candidate to assist me in my journey towards motherhood. Disenchanted by my initial encounter with a dishonest individual who seemed more interested in his own desires than in assisting me with sincerity, I decided to give the platform another chance.
By Brandi Dexter30 days ago in Confessions
Nude Next Door Documentary
Nude Next Door is on ABC iview is about OnlyFans and the world of online porn. I was so shocked an ABC journalist messaged me out of the blue and managed to find my name. Apparently someone who went the same high school as me said i had an Only Fans account and she wanted to find more about me & my story. I feel it was a really great opportunity to take but i was never in the media industry and i feel so nervous filming with a lot of nerve wracking questions. I was so brave to make my own choice against my mother's wishes because my story would relate to so many young people who are financially struggling and they do not want to ask their parents for money. Therefore, they jump into sex work because of this.It was psychologically stressful doing sex work online because many young people like me have to choose between a good relationship with my family or making a lot of money becoming more career oriented by doing online sex work which many parents don't agree on their choice of income.
By Brandi Dexter10 months ago in Journal
" Go and get a job " does not help
I had zero confidence looking for work.I thought no one would hire me. I was told by my mother at the age of 16 " You don't need a job , you need to focus on your studies". The most idiotic advice ever. I was jealous of the teenagers in my grade working at Mc Donalds or any fast food chain. My dad said i would get sacked from every job. Pretty ableist and rude of him anyways. I find my mums advice idiotic because working from a young age gives people wisdom and knowledge to work in other jobs as teenagers leave school.
By Brandi Dexterabout a year ago in Filthy
Seeking Arrangement
Well in October i went on Seeking Arrangement.I was dry on money. As an underemployed disabled person i really needed some income. It's not fun being under-employed and receiving disability allowance. I hated it. I did not want to ask my parents for money. I could go back on OnlyFans but it was too awkward to buy more lingerie and sex toys when my finances were limited. Also to shoot more content at home would be super awkward and it would cause ramifications with my mother who would never agree with the idea because she dislikes the idea of young people doing sex work whenever if it's online or in person meet ups.
By Brandi Dexterabout a year ago in Journal
mental health
Mental health is a priority and it’s a part of overall health. Mental health includes our wellbeing. A mental health issue can be defined as ‘a clinically diagnosable disorder ‘that actually has barriers in the person’s cognitive, emotional or social abilities. However, the term covers a variety of illnesses such as anxiety, affective and substance use disorders. An individual does not have to meet the criteria for a mental health disorder and have a negative effect on their mental health. Mental health illness is impacted by a few socioeconomic factors, an individual access to services, the nature of their living conditions and the status of their employment. A person’s mental health can affect their careers and families. (Australian Bureau of Statistics , 2022)
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Education
Substance abuse
Substance abuse and crime overlap as drugs show personality changes in criminals. Substance abuse alters the brain in terms of thinking and behaviour. Because of high levels of drug use impacting their behaviour, it becomes more of a vicious cycle to get out from. Economic pressures and psychopharmacological effects explain the substance abuse usage in crime. Studies have found that there is a racial aspect when it comes to crime and substance use. In the state of Western Australia, there is a big numerical percentage when it comes to substance abuse and crime in terms of race. Aboriginals are part of Western Australia’s population with a percentage of %3.6. But 38% of the populations in Western Australian adult prisons are Aboriginal. Aboriginal youth are more likely to clash with the law compared to other ethnicities in Australia. (Riordan, 2017)
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Education
Ramona Singer's moments
Ramona Singer grew up outside of NYC but grew up in the country in New York state. She had eastern european parents and her parents relationship were strained until the day she died. She moved to NYC in the 1980's and worked in fashion. Focused on her career because she wanted to get out of toxic household.Her mother was stuck in an abusive relationship and her mother had babies young. Her mother was a housewife. She wanted to leave her husband but she could'nt because she did not have the fianances to do so. She was so unhappy.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
Child abuse
Nobody should go through this. My father hit me with a belt when i was 13. It's was technically child abuse.I felt upset and i had trauma and pain. I go to bed at night time. I don't care when people say I shouldn't put this up on social media because this is an experience no body should go through. It was 2011. I wish child protection services got involved. Headspace told me in 2016.No legal action was taken people don't know what it feels like because you have never experienced it. Psychology effects into adulthood can be harming.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Families
Dealing with ableist women part 1
Sometimes I do not remember things straightway , it takes me a decade or a few years to remember them. I felt bullied. My mum thought this friend was a nice person. Let’s call her Bernadette. She gave me a best friend necklace in 2007. In my opinion I think best friend necklaces are a load of bullshit . I do not need to have a best friend. Bernadette was a quiet girl and excelled in religious studies at school. Her parents were nice people.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
Dealing with ableist women part 2
I even went to a psychic called Mariam to vent out and she tells me what she has to say .I was very unfiltered and she said I was depressed and showed me a card that had a visual description of a person showing depressed and upset body language.Mariam claimed that Sam blamed my mental health issues for not getting along with her.I wanted to move to Queensland , while Sam was nagging me to stay with her.It was horrible to blame my health issues for not getting along with her.
By Brandi Dexter2 years ago in Humans
