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The effects on slut shaming

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By Brandi DexterPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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The effects on slut shaming
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I cried reading an article about slut shaming and how slut shaming have harmful effects on young women and older. Because this reminds me of a housemate of mine who triggered my memories. I think slut shaming is digusting. I remember watching MAFS , many people thought Olivia was doing revenge porn. She was'nt doing revenge porn because the image was not from a paywall on OnlyFans or steal it from a OnlyFans page. It was used to bully her. The image was from Dom's social media. Dom had no problem people seeing the image , but it was used to gossip about her.

I am no lawyer or police officer that can advise on legal matters. but I am currently studying crime and justice at TAFE. Dom has reported it to the police wondering if Olivia was doing revenge porn.I feel sorry for Domenica because Domenica is a successful influencer and she has a amazing podcast. She wants the feud with Olivia to be over and want Olivia to say sorry to her to her face. But at the end , I knew Olivia was'nt going to say sorry to Dom , because narcissists always refuse to be accountable for their actions and always play the victim.

I think Dom could start a civil lawsuit against Olivia for humilating her on TV.

Domenica is living a better life because she is not bothered by mean girls. She is having the best time of her life overseas and spreading sexual postivity with her best friend Ella Ding on her podcast

Olivia denied that she was slut shaming Domenica so many times but she said the problem that Dom was using social media when MAFS was filming , which was against the contract from chanel nine. Olivia kept denying that she was slut shaming and suddenly starts an OnlyFans after the show. She continued to bully Domenica after filming by spreading rumors about her that she had the hots for another cast member and go to a american styled diner in sydney , put a paper bag over her head. The paper bag was aimed at Dom and to make fun of her OnlyFans.

I agree with Jessika power that Domenica should'nt be laughed behind her back. Domenica started crying on camera and to Ella Ding. She felt bullied and humilated on national television. It was not nude photo scandal, it was used to humilate her. I feel so bad for Domenica. Ella Ding was a good support and Olivia kept being a bitch, saying that " Dom could'nt face the music".

Many OnlyFans creators who were Ex MAFS stars , disowned Olivia for slut shaming Domenica on the show. However , Olivia started to pay attention to Jessika Power. Jessika Power moved to the UK and she's so happy there in the UK with her boyfriend and her dog. Olivia claimed Meghan ( an entertainment journalist ) was twisting words around and saying things that wern'nt true at all. But Meghan actually screenshotted Olivia writing back on instagram. In the screenshot it actually says ' Oooft probs not smart to put a figure out, But i'll say , I've already made more than Jess Power's best month'.

Jessika Power thought it was plain nasty and rude for Olivia to make fun of her behind her back and boast that she has made more than Jessika Power. Jessika Power claimed that her accountant knows how much she makes , that's between herself and the accountant she sees. Slut shaming is wrong and it makes women feel degrading , dirty and trashy for doing something they want to do. Only fans creators should not slut shame other women for doing the same. They are all on only fans to be sex postive and make a income for their themselves.

Jessika does not slut shame other creators and she has moved on from MAFS. Olivia keeps attacking people whom she has a grudge on and it's clear that she has not moved on from MAFS.Olivia kept changing the story about the image so that's why maybe Dom went to the police to find out where she got the photo from.

Women always get victim blamed and slut shamed for sending nudes. There needs to be professional counselling for victims of slut shaming.Olivia's friend and castmate Tamara told Dom that she has to deal with the backlash about her OnlyFans.How disgracful.

I feel slut shamed when someone sent a lingerie shot of me to my stepdad off my instagram. I felt sexual and sex postive at the time.But the topic came up at dinner in March.

My mother made me feel dirty about myself and made me feel bad about myself.My stepdad blew up in explosion after someone sent it to him. I do not know who sent it to him,but my stepdad was threatening me if it happens again., he will send it to my biological father and my grandma. Even though the photo was in public , i felt slut shamed , I hate the person who sent it to my stepdad just to humilate me and made sure they knew about it. I feel so awkward and uneasy.

But yeah, i knew i could be in trouble if i was working at another job ( this was before i was working in hospitality.I meant i could be in trouble,for misconduct outside of work hours. My friend messaged me privately on instagram and told me that she was sorry if someone sent it to my stepdad and screenshotted it , because it was an invasion of my privacy and it was not karma.She vaildated that my photo was a cheeky one as she has seen a lot worse . She belived that nudes should be shared between two people and it should'nt be spread around to other people.

Women are always going to get judged on what they wear , especially the younger generations.It's digusting making so many rules on women's clothing as a society.

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