social media

Social Media for modern lovers in the digital age.

  • HowToFind .com
    Published 16 days ago
    Love 2.0

    Love 2.0

    Hi, I'm a 31 year old girl. I just separated from my partner after five years and I've been single for a while, but I can not know anyone. I would like to start having a relationship with someone, but my life is very stable and routine, and I find it difficult to meet new people. I've signed up for social activities but I haven't met anyone either. I'm thinking about downloading some apps to meet people but I'm a little embarrassed and afraid that it's not for me. Is it good that I sign up for these apps? Thank you.
  • Courtney Lowry
    Published 17 days ago
    No One Cares About My Instagram... And It Shows

    No One Cares About My Instagram... And It Shows

    Instagram is like a bad ex-boyfriend.
  • Choice Words by Chantelle
    Published 4 months ago
    The Party No One Came to

    The Party No One Came to

    You know that nightmare where you host a party and no one turns up?
  • Courtney Lowry
    Published 4 months ago
    Social Media is the Archive of Our Lives

    Social Media is the Archive of Our Lives

    Often when I scroll down my friends’ Instagram feeds, I get this sudden gut-wrenching regret. But not because of them, but because of me.
  • Heart Centered Dating
    Published 4 months ago
    Dating Apps Are Taking Over!

    Dating Apps Are Taking Over!

    The internet has completely changed the way we meet people. Even as recently as 15 years ago, single folks that had an online dating profile were embarrassed to even admit it. Today, everyone is meeting people online! The one big downside of online dating in the past was that in order to meet someone, you had to spend hours at home searching through your computer by yourself.
  • Brian Anonymous
    Published 4 months ago
    Doing Charitable Activities on Social Media

    Doing Charitable Activities on Social Media

    Back in the earlier days of social media and YouTube, we used to see posts and videos with friends and colleagues doing charitable work. Over the years, these videos have dwindled and I'm not exactly sure why. I think it may have been in part because of the social backlash a lot of these people received. I know that there are a ton of people that don't approve of people displaying their own benevolent acts on social media these days. It's okay to post about others doing good things but it's distasteful if you post about yourself.
  • Abstract Ammy
    Published 5 months ago
    Facebook Made Everyone Forget My Birthday

    Facebook Made Everyone Forget My Birthday

    I don't even know how to start this. I thought I would be okay, but now that I finally decided to bite the damn bullet and write about literally everyone that I care about forgetting my birthday, I just can't seem to start this thing.
  • Alexandria Blan ☽
    Published 5 months ago
    Why I Deleted Social Media

    Why I Deleted Social Media

    If you're reading this—congratulations! You are on Vocal Media, a website worth spending time on for all sorts of inspiration, creativity, and education.
  • itsHarmony .
    Published 5 months ago
    Social Media and Mental Health

    Social Media and Mental Health

    Social media, the platform that in our society today we spend the majority of our lives on. We waste hours upon hours mindlessly scrolling through feeds, not even allowing our brains enough time to comprehend, understand and process what we are reading. I suppose it's contradictory for me to sit and write about this topic when I am just as much responsible for the growth of it over the years. The hours that have I have put into it, and gained what?
  • Owen Fox
    Published 6 months ago
    Control and a Man’s Self Image in the Social Media Age

    Control and a Man’s Self Image in the Social Media Age

    Control over one’s surroundings and the people in our surroundings is something we oftentimes connotate with negative thoughts, while control over one’s self is something many value as a positive character trait. This is especially prevalent in Western culture, in part due to the recent rise in social media platforms, but also due to our inherent lust for dominance over others, has altered our perception of control.
  • Bailey Welki
    Published 6 months ago
    What Social Media Means to Me, Right Now

    What Social Media Means to Me, Right Now

    We live in such a social media consumed society. We value our worth based on followers, comments, and inbox messages that seem full of color, but have no depth. I think people forgot that their worth isn’t measured by Instagram’s algorithm. People trade authenticity for approval from complete strangers. Comments about your outfit from a random stranger in the street means more than someone sitting behind a screen saying the same comments to all the girls they follow.
  • Pravieena Gnanakumar
    Published 6 months ago
    The Do’s & Don’t’s of Group Chats

    The Do’s & Don’t’s of Group Chats

    Facing the reality of being separated from your friends can be challenging, but luckily for us, group chats are a thing. The quirky name inspired by an inside joke, followed by several ridiculous emojis soon becomes how you refer to yourselves as a collective.