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Time is precious, forgive me for not being able to waste it with you
Occasionally I would see a student eating alone in the cafeteria. Most of them are holding chopsticks in one hand and a cell phone in the other, desperately pressing and pressing, as if they are really talking to someone very important. At the same time the mouth kept eating very wolfishly, and then left quickly as if the buttocks were on fire, the whole process looks like an anxious monkey.
The "right time" you are waiting for will never come
I once had a job where my line manager approached me and we had a novel conversation: don't be afraid of promotions. Yes, I was one of those people who was afraid of promotions.
Many A-SunPublished 2 years ago in HumansYou don't need to be busy, you just need to insist on it
A few days ago, a small friend in the time management class told me that after managing her time well, she suddenly became idle during this period and felt strange, asking me what to do.
Many A-SunPublished 2 years ago in HumansLost in a world of comparison
Your unhappiness comes from not being satisfied with your state and always comparing yourself with the people around you. This is most obvious from the child, no child likes to be compared with the people around them by their parents, but always can not avoid it, parents use to do a comparison to show off, one is to urge the child's motivation, but this way there is no way to let the child focus on the things that should be put, his attention at this time on the "comparison The child's attention is on the "comparison" thing. And this comparison is for the child, but the child experienced a lot of bad emotions, inferiority, disdain, jealousy, hatred, disgust, etc., and very few people can go from the comparison to positive progress. Because in the process of comparison, the focus is on how to be better than each other, how to be better than each other, rather than what they need to do. This is a game process, not a process of growth.
Diane DoraPublished 2 years ago in HumansIt takes courage to face up to your shortcomings
Recently a friend came to me to talk, and said he was upset and depressed, but, it is the most trivial matter in life, and there are no big ups and downs of things, to put it in detail, but also because of the relationship with the boyfriend is not good, more complaints about the boyfriend, I want to mention two as a bystander, but she is completely inaudible, immersed in their thinking mode refused to jump out, I was unable to interject a word. So I'll act as a "trash can" well, keep silent and let her vent her frustrations. This friend of mine has always been the same, loves to complain, and loves to talk, but also particularly stubborn! Every time I want to give her some advice, it is often superfluous, she may want to say this bad emotion to be able to feel better inside, but she does not manage their own emotions, their shortcomings are also blind, after confiding in my way, will continue to repeat the same mistakes and continue to worry about similar things, but will not think about changing their thinking patterns, always trapped in their own The set limits of thinking inside. In the end, you have to say that others don't care about you, don't understand you, and always push the root of the conflict to others, without thinking about what you are doing wrong.
Where does a sense of self-worth come from?
Each of us is born with infinite possibilities. All are potential geniuses. Why, as we slowly grow up, do many of us become passionless, no longer happy, no longer confident, and no longer loving ourselves? Become mediocre people?
Diane DoraPublished 2 years ago in HumansDo not wait until life is difficult for you, only to regret the past too comfortable
1 Nowadays, there's a phrase that makes a particularly high profile: live in the moment. You will find that the younger you are, the more people like to say this phrase. Every time I tell my younger siblings to think more about the future, they will use this phrase to refute me: "Sister, are you tired of living?"
Many A-SunPublished 2 years ago in HumansIntimacy: A Scientific Guide to Relationships Written for Men
John Gottman, a professor of psychology at the University of Washington, summarized four ineffective ways of communication that must be avoided in intimate relationships, while also giving the corresponding methods and answers.
Sinha CeniPublished 2 years ago in HumansLife has a way of tossing you around, what will you do?
1. Just after payday, Muzi updated a message in his circle of friends: Finally, it's over! It's the end of a 5-year-long debt run.
Many A-SunPublished 2 years ago in HumansCan you still love well if your thoughts are not equal?
It is often said that love conquers all. So, what is love and what kind of foundation should love be built on? Is there love between young lovers? If there is love, why can they break up just because he looked at another girl?
People who really work hard, no time to move themselves
1 There will always be such a group of people, they are particularly busy every day like to send in the circle of friends "have you seen the morning at 4:00 am?" "You have to work extra hard to look effortless."
Cindy DoryPublished 2 years ago in HumansIntimate relationships, 8 kinds of relationships that make people suffer
In intimate relationships, we can feel both sweetness and bitterness. We can feel both freedom and restraint. We can feel both security and fear.
Diane DoraPublished 2 years ago in Humans