It takes courage to face up to your shortcomings
Recently a friend came to me to talk, and said he was upset and depressed, but, it is the most trivial matter in life, and there are no big ups and downs of things, to put it in detail, but also because of the relationship with the boyfriend is not good, more complaints about the boyfriend, I want to mention two as a bystander, but she is completely inaudible, immersed in their thinking mode refused to jump out, I was unable to interject a word. So I'll act as a "trash can" well, keep silent and let her vent her frustrations. This friend of mine has always been the same, loves to complain, and loves to talk, but also particularly stubborn! Every time I want to give her some advice, it is often superfluous, she may want to say this bad emotion to be able to feel better inside, but she does not manage their own emotions, their shortcomings are also blind, after confiding in my way, will continue to repeat the same mistakes and continue to worry about similar things, but will not think about changing their thinking patterns, always trapped in their own The set limits of thinking inside. In the end, you have to say that others don't care about you, don't understand you, and always push the root of the conflict to others, without thinking about what you are doing wrong.