Can you still love well if your thoughts are not equal?

It is often said that love conquers all. So, what is love and what kind of foundation should love be built on?

Is there love between young lovers? If there is love, why can they break up just because he looked at another girl?

Is there love between husband and wife? If there is love, why divorce has become a mantra for each other?

Love, there is, and I believe that love exists. But, as a society, can not live so pure, we can not only see love, we may be social "pollution", by the environment "pollution".

The first thing that causes all kinds of conflicts and discord is that our upbringing and the education we receive are very much related to each other. A person who has been brought up to be frugal has no way to understand people who spend a lot of money everywhere and vice versa. A person who grew up with the world in color can't understand why you see the world in black and white.

Secondly, there are differences between people, in and of themselves. Each family is also a new family created by the fusion of their respective parents' ideas with each other. This family is given a new definition by the parents, and then the next generation of the family, this definition will change again.

People who can stay together despite all the obstacles put in a lot of effort and make sacrifices for each other to maintain the relationship. But for most people, the obstacles have become a lot of hurdles that cannot be overcome.

Friends say that the right family is too important when you think about it, it is true.

Our earliest understanding of the family pair is the economic status of each other's families, and harmony, but to a deeper analysis, the family pair also includes similar ideas, similar ways of doing things, similar values, similar ways of dealing with problems, etc. It's much easier to get along with a family that's right for you than one that's too far apart.

You will not feel that the other party is wasteful, and the other party will not feel that you are stingy.

The food is not meat, you will not feel shabby, the other side also feels that this is very common.

Buy clothes often thousands, you will not feel expensive, and the other party will not think your luxury.

you feel that creating a good life requires two people to work together, to live better today than yesterday, to make gains and progress every day, the other party will not feel that the day-to-day is quite good.

For a family, the impact of the big is the chicken little things, and important accidents inside the family instead of easy to make the family more united. And it is often these small, trivial things that affect the level of harmony in the family.

Most couples come together because they love each other, but often because the other is always smoking in the room, the other is always squeezing toothpaste into a mess, the other is always throwing clothes and shoes around, the other is always cooking so spicy, and so on these things and make a mess.

Love has always been there, but this time you have been invisible, this time is more "love" the essence of some things that emerge, is acceptance and integration, the idea of inequality, and how to maintain love.

There are thousands of ways, the important thing is whether you are willing to learn and change for each other, whether you can accept each other's differences, and whether you can accept each other's flaws. The difference is that it is easier to agree on similar ideas and to communicate.

For adults, love is no longer a candy that can solve all of life's problems, but love determines whether you are willing to improve your problems or not. It becomes important to know how to reconcile and accept.

Many people tend to confuse love with problems, when there is no conflict with each other, it is love, when the problem arose and is difficult to solve, love is not there, and after that, it is reconciled and love is back.

Love has always been there, but when you face a problem, perhaps you are angry, or sad to occupy your mind, you can only see the problem brings you negative emotions, and even because of this negative emotion and completely deny the person, completely deny the fact that they love each other. What you lack between you is only the solution to the problem, the lack of an effective way of communication, these and love and not love do not conflict and does not have a relationship.

Love is sometimes covered up by some trivial things, but as long as you still believe in love, as long as you can still see love, then the problem will eventually be solved.