Gabriela Marcial
Bio
Hi I am a mother, wife and love to write and express what life has been for me. Thank you guys for your time and reads I appreciate you guys, I’m very caring and humorous.
Stories (24/0)
It's About Our Children
When you bring a child or children into this world it’s the most beautiful thing and precious moments in life. As they get older not most parents stay with each other and that’s okay but what isn’t okay is that most parents out there go at it with each other. This isn’t okay because then the child/children get traumatized and which is the parent's fault because they are being selfish. They think about their feeling but not the child/children. Then you got one parent trying to provoke the other parent. What does the child/Children learn from this? See when you go to court the judges say what’s best for the child/children. When you do child support it’s the same thing. What most parents don’t understand is that you don’t need to be friends when it comes to co-parenting. You need to be on the same page when it comes to communication. You can hate each other and still co-parent. I know some people that just co-parent by communicating and they do it through an app. I don’t think most parents will understand because they sit there and judge each other or one is judging the other one and the other one is trying to remain calm. There isn’t going to be a reasonable situation because all the parents are doing is teaching the child/children to judge people, to not communicate better, and to think everything is supposed to be perfect.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Families
A Broken Heart
My heart is big and some things have broken it. The chains that were attached to my heart have been broken. It’s not a good thing because that bond I had for my first two children has been taken and cut in half. I used to beat myself up over it every single day about it’s my fault that he threw me out in front of my babies. How he took my babies from me when I was the only one they were close with and attached to. How he listens to his mom on everything. My motherhood was questioned. I’m not a bad mom and I’m a great wife. My husband has told me so himself. My husband has told me that my heart is so big that in a previous relationship that he took advantage of me and used me. That my ex knew the right time to throw me out and to take me to court. He had cops on his side when the children were supposed to be with their moms. He took me away from my friends and families. I had no one. It hurts that I get those memory notification pictures of my kids. I have to keep looking at them because I miss them and I love them so much. Will I ever feel better? Will I ever stop crying? How can I move forward when my ex tells me I’m a bad mother? I’m just the possessory nothing more. I don’t have any percentage of the children. They are going to hate me and it won’t make it any better and I pray every day that when they get older is that they get to have the chance to get to have me in their lives. I pray for the future and I pray for my painful broken heart with broken chains to be reattached. I will try to move forward and not allow people to turn me into a spiteful person because that’s not who I am. I’m sorry I keep talking about it but I just want my voice to be heard. I want to stop hurting so much. I know I have a new family now and a husband but it doesn’t change the fact I have children out there that do need a mother. No one has given me a chance to hear me out. They always silence me and I have grown tired of that. I’ve grown tired of being used and abused. I’m tired of being silent. How do you move on from all that hurt? I don’t understand what am I scared of? I mean I’m not slandering my children’s father's name. His name isn’t on here. But apparently, I’m the one hurting the children. I used to have so much hate but I don’t know anymore. I used to want to turn back time but then I wouldn’t have my current son and husband. I wouldn’t have a beautiful big home and my car. I have 3 beautiful male dogs and two kittens. Dog number one is a pit-boxer, Dog number two is a pit terrier and Dog number three is a German shepherd. Very beautiful male dogs. Two of them came from an abused home and we saved them from that. One I found when he was a baby four weeks old. The kittens we saved as well. I am very happy with what I have because I didn’t have it before. I didn’t even know how to completely drive. My husband taught me and I learned at age 24. Crazy right? I learned a lot from my husband and I’m currently interested In going to college which my husband is super supportive of. I’m getting to become something in life that I didn’t get to do before. I understand this isn’t worth losing and isn’t worth staying in pain for. Guys, I am writing what is on my mind.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Humans
How he played her.
It was Dec 22,2018 7:32am when he yelled get out three times to his ex in front of the children. She had on a black tank top showing skin and short shorts that showed her thighs it was pink and black the plaid shorts. That’s the way he had kicked her out.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Humans
Small act of kindness leads to
It was a beautiful morning as my husband and I walked to jack in the box. We had just come from a hotel that we stood the night. We enjoyed walking everywhere even though it was really hot outside. We enter jack in the box and started ordering our breakfast. We got the 2 for 4 dollars. But see we bought an extra one because see my husband can eat. I don’t know if it’s a man thing but he can eat a lot. Well as we were enjoying our breakfast with endless conversations. A nice lady comes in and sits down at a booth before us and starts falling asleep. I had noticed her because when she came in she seemed so tired and drained. I just had this feeling to keep an eye on her. My husband pulled my attention for a moment and asked what I was staring at. I explained I was staring at the young lady in the booth before us. I also said that I just had a feeling to keep an eye on her. He did ask me perhaps we should talk to her? I told him she’s asleep. I know our day wasn’t supposed to stay at jack in the box but an hour passes by and she is still asleep. A cashier comes up to her and tells her she needs to buy something to stay in the restaurant. Now I understand where they come from but I feel like that’s not the right way to approach someone. The young lady explained that she isn’t feeling well and that she was pregnant. I immediately got up and when I did my husband stared at me as I scared him with the way I got up. I went to the cashier and told her “I want to buy this young lady her food”.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Humans
Our children
When you bring a child into your life it’s the most beautiful blessing you can get. You see them grow and experience their milestones with them. Their smiles and laughs are the most beautiful things that can brighten up your world even more. They are so innocent in these stages and beautiful.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Families
What type of career you want?
We as people always ask ourselves who are we? Why aren’t we someone in life? Well, let me tell you something. We are someone in life. We are a sibling, a friend, a mother, a father, an aunt, an uncle, a cousin, and a worker. No matter what job you have you are something in life. See people have big dreams and I believe you can do anything you can put your mind to. But if you feel like a failure and ready to give up then you are not motivated yourself. You may think oh no I want to be a doctor that’s being someone. Okay, we'll get up and be one. But why do you want to be a doctor Or a teacher or a police officer? Is it because you want people to see you are someone important? Well hello, you are you just don’t see it or the family doesn’t see it. You are someone in life. Now if you want to become a police officer or anyone else in life make sure it’s something you would love doing please don’t just do it to do it because you want to become someone for your family. No that’s not right. You should make a career In what you are passionate about. What you love the most is what matters. There’s plenty of people out there that hate their jobs and I bet you wouldn’t want to be in the same situation. Because they get up every single day despising it and with full regret. But see you don’t have to give up what you want to become in your life with your career because you can keep pushing yourself. Be passionate and authentic to what you want in your life. What we humans don’t know is that we take life for granted. We don’t take advantage of the things we have because we don’t know how to. Yes, school is time and money but isn’t it worth what you are loving to become for your future? Most people now theses days don’t need school just to become a business owner. I have examples of people that own their own business and didn’t have to go to college to become a business owner and manager. I know you can do people. And as you read my story I want you to think of all the obstacles you have in your way that you can overcome and make it to the end. Think about it it’s you who holds yourself back not anyone else. You make mistakes but you learn from them and that’s how you get through life along the way.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Motivation
My PTSD
When I thought about PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), I thought to my self do I have it? I ask myself this because of my previous relationship. I mean the way I reacted to my fianće was unbelievable. I just recently had a baby with my fianće and I don't like being without my baby. I think it has so much to do with how my first two kids not being in my life for a year. See I didn't mean to speculate that my fianće made our baby boy cry. It was just something that Transpired. It is all because of my previous relationship. My Ex was always making the kids cry and he enjoyed it for some reason. I also relive the memories of being thrown out in front of my kids. I relive the moment they said,” mommy please take me with you”. My fianće catches me with my anxiety and acknowledges the fact that this PTSD that I have is a challenge for me. The flashbacks that I get has put me into anxiety episodes. I’ve had sleep paralysis 2 times this year and that’s a very scary thing to go through. Where you can’t move and speak, it’s like you feel like your dying.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Psyche
A brand new version of myself
I have been trying to find myself and I did. Who I was before isn’t the person I am now. As I found myself, I found the person I want to be and I became her. Brave, strong, forgiving, and happy. I am not perfect but I know who I am now. I know the brand new version of my self is better than the old.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Motivation
Will I Win?
What am I doing wrong? Why have I been so nice? Why did I let my heart think for me? I was with this man for 5 years and I can tell you I stopped being happy in 6 months of our relationship. Why I didn’t leave him ? Well because I had no one to go back to. Why? Because he took everyone I had around me and pushed them away. My mother, my father, my siblings, and my friends. I also stood with him to give us a chance for our baby girl. But it wasn’t enough for him. He would purposely miss work to go hang out will friends. And after I had my baby I barely had his support because he was listening to his mom about not helping me because he works. So when my daughter hit 6 months I started to work. But when I would get off he would leave our baby girl home by her self in her bed and no his mom wasn’t there either. She was crying and I had told him it’s not kewl doing that. That’s being a bad parent. Then to find out I was pregnant yet again. Yes I am an idiot but I won’t ever regret all my kids. But the sexual situation is for another story later.
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Families
Until He Breaks you
When you meet someone you only think about the happiness that you have for the future. The worries and unhappy things don’t come to mind as your with the person and plan for your family life. You give someone many years of your life and children just to think you won’t become homeless. What about the things that you do for him like a wife does?
By Gabriela Marcial3 years ago in Humans