Until He Breaks you

When you meet someone you only think about the happiness that you have for the future. The worries and unhappy things don’t come to mind as your with the person and plan for your family life. You give someone many years of your life and children just to think you won’t become homeless. What about the things that you do for him like a wife does?

Well your feelings did not matter him. But if it did he wouldn’t have put you in the situation you had been in for a few days. Then again where you are at now makes you happy because your not dealing with him and you don’t have someone making you sad every single day. When he comes home and you have dinner ready, was he appreciative? What about the his clothes you washed? Or making his lunch for work? Did he really care to appreciate you? How about did he acknowledge you leaving and coming home?

This breaks a women. It leaves you broken for so many years. Not only that but also leads you into depression. Why? Because you give him chances and he doesn’t change. When you sit him down and say “Hey babe I feel like your not appreciating anything I do here”. Don’t you think that starts an argument? Not most men see that the women stop taking care of her self to take care of the them. This is also what breaks them. When a man stops telling his women she’s beautiful and that he loves her. So tell me can you take this type of life for so many years? Cook, clean, take care of the animals, your children and give him his needs as well. He doesn’t even pleasure you. Isn’t this enough that he has broken you? Until he breaks you like this, how will you cope? Your alone with no one to lean on. Don’t forget who you where before you met him because if you did you are in depression. Why I say this? Well because you forgot who you are. You forgot how to dress your self. How to do your hair, Nails, and forgot all about your hygiene. Yes this can happen. You forgot how to treat your self because you trying to meet to his standards when you can’t. You trying to put your kids needs first as well. How are you supposed to put your self first if your husband/bf doesn’t help you? How are you supposed to take care of your self if he doesn’t want to be there for you? Think about it. You putting his needs, Childrens needs and his families needs if they are involved first. He’s breaking you. His mom if she’s involved telling him that you need to do everything and he doesn’t have to. He comes home with not even acknowledging you. No appreciation, communication, love and respect for you. Is that okay? If you been with him this long and you are reading this. Please start taking care of your self before you break completely. Please remember the person who you were because you can’t get that back once you have lost with no help. Until he breaks you then you will understand.