How he played her.

It was Dec 22,2018 7:32am when he yelled get out three times to his ex in front of the children. She had on a black tank top showing skin and short shorts that showed her thighs it was pink and black the plaid shorts. That’s the way he had kicked her out.

Nov 7th she broke up with him because she felt she wasn’t being appreciated at all. She would cook, do laundry, clean the whole house, take care of her children take the whole acre his mom had and take care of his dogs. He would work from 7 am to 5 or 6 pm. When he would come home he wouldn’t even acknowledge her. He went to shower and leave his clothes on the floor after finishing. He wouldn’t even eat dinner with the children. All he wanted to eat was chips. It became an everyday thing. He did not want to help with the children because he was tired and when she got a over night job him and his mom was upset about it. The reason for her to work was because he was not providing the children their needs so she had to do it. She would do anything for her children I mean any mother would right?

Few days after she broke up with him he was still okay with it. For some reason she didn’t know why he was okay with it. Usually he would want to fight for something he loves but she thought to her self. Could he have been cheating? Why wouldn’t the man want to fix it? Why would he be okay with the break up?

Well she was okay but had a bunch of thoughts about his actions.

More days pass as she stopped cleaning up after him and started taking care of her appearance and the children. It was time to take care of her self so she could be healthy again. He started to notice that she was taking care of her self and didn’t like it. She was texting more frequently but he didn’t know who. She enjoyed going to work because that ment she was having a good time at work than at home. She enjoyed playing with her children and being with them but she didn’t enjoy being with her ex and his mom. She was bullied by his mom. His mom Would call her fat and talk about her butt being wide. This made her cry so much because she knew she was big and she was trying to lose weight. His mom would tell her she needs to run everyday to lose weight. But didn’t say anything to her son about his weight. She would cry every single day because she has been bullied all her life and can’t seem to get a break.

This is why her job was her escape. When they were at work she enjoyed being a mom to her children but when they came back it was her being told what to do. She made friends at work and she started to like one even though he might have not liked her the way she did.they exchanged each other’s numbers and stayed texting a lot. She didn’t have Facebook or Instagram because your ex told her to delete because he didn’t like the fact she had a lot of guy friends. She agreed deleting it because she loved him and wanted him to not think she was doing something behind his back. Well she decided to download an app and social media as well because she wanted friends again.

Dec 11,2018, she wanted to go out and he wouldn’t let her. So she decided to lie and say she had to work that day. She was dropped off to work and met up with someone she met on an dating app she downloaded. They both went to a hotel and hung out there. Next thing you know her ex calls her. Panic starts to set in and she didn’t know what to say so she picked up and he questions her saying where is she at ? Why isn’t she at work? Why did she lie? Who is she with? How he went to her job to drop off food to her and she was not where to be found.

She said well I am hanging out with a girl which was a lie because she wasn’t. She was afraid of her ex. So she hung up purposely and didn’t pick up his calls anymore. He told her well find your own way back home. Which she did and when she got to her studio house she was knocking for hours and he wouldn’t open up because he was in deep sleep. She was getting tired outside and he finally opened up after two hours because she banged the outside walls for him to wake.

She sleeps in the chair and doesn’t say a word.

December 22,2018 6:30 am she is finally coming back home from work. They kept her for an extra hour and thirty minutes because her ex came late to pick her up.

6:45 she undresses and lays in bed because she is so exhausted. 7:15 am he is touching her butt and she pushes him away telling him to leave her alone. He gets mad because she don’t want to give him any, she said they were broken up. They just living together because he begged her to stay with the kids instead of leaving and getting an apartment for her and her kids.

7:24 am she gets a message from her boss while she trying to sleep. Her boss tells her no to days she wants off because she really needs her. She understood and was just going to leave it alone. But her ex takes her phone to read it because he was upset she didn’t get the days off she was asking for. Then a text from a guy comes in and he opens it and runs to the bathroom like a child because he wanted to read her messages. She tries to get her phone back but she wasn’t successful taking it back. He was stronger than her and pushed her to lock the bathroom door. She supposed to be respected with her privacy.

He gets mad and yells Get out three times in front of the children. It’s already hit 7:32 am and he was furious after she listened to him he gives her phone back. He tells her you wanted this. She was afraid he would do something else if she didn’t listen. The only thing she had was her personal items like her phone and debit card. She couldn't find her ID and social because they took that from her basically stealing it from her. She sits next to a dumpster and cry’s because she has no one to go to and she tried calling people to get her. No ones could get her. She walked all the way to her old job and sat there because too many men in their vehicles kept honking at her because of what she was wearing. She was wearing black spaghetti strap tank top and a pink and black plaid shorts where you can see a lot of skin like her thighs.

Hours hit and her ex tells her she needs to write a letter stating that she needs to say she leaving the children with grandma until further notice and she has to get them into day care.

It’s sad that they rather kick the children’s mom out having her be homeless just because she was moving on.

Next day she calls grandpa and tells him what happened to her and that she’s by her jobs that she had to let go and she had no where to go. Grandpa hangs up the phone. 15 mins later grandpa calls back and says call your mother. But she doesn’t have her number grandpa gives the number and says again call your mother. You guys need to get over your differences and need each other. So she calls her mother and explains everything that happened.

12 pm December 23rd her mom is at the destination that she is at. They see each other and give each other a hug. She cried in her moms arms. She apologized to her mom for not listening to her about this relationship for when she had chose him instead of her mom.

They go back to try to get the kids but the cop even said that she couldn’t take her kids. It’s sad knowing that this state supposed to help the women but they don’t. She had just been thrown out but they don’t care. The cop says well you are trespassing they said and you need to leave if you don’t we will remove you.

Her mom on the phone tells her just listen to the officer because you don’t need to be arrested over something that can be handled another way.

I’m sorry guys but the rest I will write later.

It has taken a lot of courage for me to write this and tears has fallen during the whole type writing. Thank you for reading.