Pick A Card: How Do They See Me Now?

Find Out Feelings, Intentions, and Relationship Outcomes.

By Zondra Dos AnjosPublished 4 months ago • 5 min read

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Questions about how the person from our past feels about us happen to arise from time to time. In this article, I want to read about their feelings more deeply.

We will lay out how they see you, feel about you, their intentions, the energy they get from you, how they desire you, and the outcome of your connection.

Now, let’s go over to the piles…

Pile 1 — Heart Lolipop

Pile 2 — Love Cupcake

Pile 3 — Chocolate Box

In this reading, I will use the Tattoo Tarot, The Romance Angels Oracle Cards, Numerology Oracle, and The Energy Oracle; by clicking the link, you support me to get a small commission.

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Pile 1 — Heart Lolipop

This person believes that somehow you have held them back by responding to some situations childishly or overreacting. Otherwise, this person sees you as someone who matches their lifestyle or has many common interests. Somehow, they are still thinking about what you could build together.

Regarding feelings, they have wanted to communicate with you in the last two months. They also think about what could have been if you were still together and how things would evolve between you.

The red flags between you came out of pride and the fear of being criticized because communication between you was not good then. Too much was happening in a short time frame.

The next time you see them, you might notice them more reserved than usual; depending on the breakup, give it time to process the whole situation. Time can be our best friend.

This person finds it difficult to get near you at this moment. I also sense obstacles coming from people on their side; therefore, they may be acting distant.

This can be a challenge, especially if you want this person back in your life. Another challenge I sense here is that this person intends to set boundaries if you get back together.

You need to know that despite your problems, this person has a special feeling for you; after all, you are still in their thoughts. They want you to be aware of how you respond to certain situations.

I sensed the fear of conflict coming from them, so they were silent from August to September. You need to know that they plan on seeing you again.

The outcome of this connection can be challenging, for the trust needs to be built again. There is an opportunity for a new cycle, and this new path demands less jealousy and insecurity.

Your chemistry is too strong for you to be apart; both love start things, traveling, photography, and enjoying life. Pay attention to all red flags and discuss them, not to criticize but to improve the relationship.

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Pile 2 — Love Cupcake

In this pile, I see that this person had many good moments with you, where the connection was almost unbelievable; they still feel connected with you.

They see you as a good fit for them and feel chemistry with you like they have known you for a long time.

I sense a situation where the person felt connected with you, but you couldn’t continue to date because of your schedule.

At this moment, this person resents not holding on to this connection with you.

I sense that the person we are reading here had a complicated breakup with an ex who refused to let them go. It took a lot of time and energy, at least six months, for them to regain control over their feelings after this stormy relationship.

Their uncertain feelings for their ex were the leading cause of their detachment from you. This person needed clarification, when you used to date, about what they wanted.

When it comes to their intentions, they might be reluctant to go into a relationship because they still heal from the lack of trust from the past relationship.

The person might be facing some trust issues now, and their main challenge is to build trust in a love connection again.

You need to know that this person might be facing a complicated moment right now because of wounds that still need to be healed.

In this connection, you will date for some time and might even enter a lasting relationship. However, my intuition tells me that you won’t be able to hold on to this relationship as long as the past relationship is still a subject.

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Pile 3 — Chocolate Box

This person sees you as someone they could have had a good relationship with if they hadn’t hurt you, and they regret this. Do you see the broken heart card? This card indicates that they know things between you need to be sorted out.

They perceive you as giving, empathic, and sensitive.

They feel that the main issue between you was that you were different and that your paths and ambitions could clash if you stayed together.

They intend to reconnect and try again to see if things work between you. They want to know how your life is going; they might even try to ask a mutual friend indirectly how you are doing lately.

The main challenge between the two of you is to avoid focusing on what happened and trying to change things in the past. It’s all in the past. They know you still have things from the past you want your way; however, it’s nothing to be done.

This person wants you to know that even if you are apart, they still feel a good connection with you and think about the friendship you had before the relationship took place.

They respect you for the years you have known each other and won’t let you go so quickly. Remember that the foundation of a successful relationship is the friendship and trust connection you had in the first place.

This connection’s outcome is back and forth because the person still thinks you can have a relationship but is unsure if they want a serious commitment.

The issue might be that this connection needs to balance giving and receiving; focusing on what can be done from now on instead could be done differently.