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How to Use Text Messages to Make Him Obsessed

Why Men Shut Women Out + How To Fix It

By SamiraPublished 6 months ago 6 min read
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This is a tiny solo tutorial that builds on one of the Hero Instinct's core themes.

It explains why men "shut down" and stop opening up to you, as well as what you may do and say to persuade him to open up again.

This is very practical advice that you can put into action right away.

How to Make Him Obsessed with Text Messages:

When discussing secret signals, the primary eBook commonly uses texting as an example.

This tutorial goes a step further by showing you how to use texting to catch a man's complete attention and fill his head with thoughts of you.

It focuses on word-for-word example texts, exactly when to use them for maximum impact, and common texting mistakes to avoid at all costs.

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Why Men Say They're "Fine" - And What It Means:

This quick guide reveals the real meaning behind why men say they're fine when you ask them what's wrong. It also shows you how to get him to open up when he makes this statement.

Understanding this is important because a man saying he's fine when he's not is very common in relationships and can be frustrating for women.

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Who Should Get His Secret Obsession?

The following are the primary sorts of women that can greatly benefit from James Bauer's relationship advice:

  • Women whose guy has become distant - whether he's stopped paying attention, texting as often, or simply doesn't seem as engaged in general - the hero impulse may be really beneficial.
  • Those who are having difficulty convincing their man to take the next step? The hidden signals James teaches redefine how he sees you in his life and make him believe that not committing to you would be a mistake.
  • Women in stagnant or stale relationships - if you feel like you're in a rut and the spark has disappeared, this method can give your relationship fresh energy by making you an emotional priority in his thoughts.
  • Those who have tried everything else - if you've read relationship book after relationship book and are left wondering, "now what?" - His Secret Obsession gives a unique perspective that many women claim they've never heard before.
  • Women who want to feel really loved and respected - this program isn't about manipulating a man into loving you and seeing you as an important part of his life in a true sense. If it is what you desire from your relationship, this program can assist you in achieving it.
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The common thread is that His Secret Obsession might be useful in situations where obtaining a man's affection, attention, and commitment is currently tough.

Even if he appears cold and aloof, James assures that his skills may significantly change things - even in the most hopeless situations.

While these techniques are intended for women in relationships, single women might benefit from mastering them for when they finally meet the perfect partner.

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Inside Examine Some of the Most Important "Secret Signals" and Techniques

The central assumption of His Secret Obsession is the use of "secret signals" to activate a man's hero instinct and win his heart.

Let's take a look at five of the program's primary signals:

1. The Snippet Phrase

The Glimpse Phrase provides a man a glimpse of the "real you" while leaving him wanting more.

This phrase is called "Intriguing Signal" by James, and it works by making him see you as the one lady who fully "gets him" while simultaneously being a bit of a riddle he is attempting to solve.

Here are several examples:

  • "I'm not usually this feisty with new guys." You must bring out my fun side!"
  • "I don't know what it is, but I can really be myself around you."

Using this sentence increases attraction and helps him feel as if he can open out around you without fear of rejection.

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2. The "I Owe You" Significance

This remark appears to express thanks, yet it implies so much more to a guy.

Telling a guy "I owe you" or "I owe you one" appeals to his innate urge to feel invincible.

When you make him feel that he's the only man who can provide you anything or defend you in a manner that no one else can, it's really gratifying to him.

Here are several examples:

  • "Omg thank you, I owe you one!" he says after killing a spider for you.
  • "I owe you big time for this!" he says when he gives you wonderful relationship advise.

Men appreciate hearing this from women when they feel they have made a significant contribution to your life.

3. The Signal of the Damsel in Distress

This signal appeals to a man's instinctive urge to protect and be the hero of a lady.

You activate it by convincing him that you require his assistance, advise, or protection.

Here are several examples:

  • "I have no idea which one to choose, can I get a guy's perspective?"
  • "All these noises at night are freaking me out, can you stay on the phone with me until I fall asleep?"

This makes him feel wanted and trustworthy, and he'll stand up to defend you.

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4. The Signal from Private Island

This ingenious signal convinces a man that you are "the one" and that if he loses you, he would be losing the finest thing that has ever happened to him.

You accomplish this by gradually including the words "you are the only one who..." or "you are the only person who..." into your interactions with him. As an example:

  • "You are the only person who truly listens to me."
  • "You're the only one who can make me laugh like that."

This gives him the impression that you and he share something really uncommon and special.

5. The Ex-Back Indication

If your relationship with a man has ended, The Ex-Back Signal is intended to get into your ex's emotional mind and persuade him to reconsider ending things with you.

It's a 12-word text message you can send that frames the breakup maturely and shows him you're moving on.

The following is the text:

"I accept that you no longer want me in your life." I wish things had gone differently, but I understand."

This signal has nearly gravitational pull on an ex partner, making him acutely aware of what he stands to lose if he does not win you back.

These are just a handful of the hidden messages found in His Secret Obsession. There are other more that are as effective.

And James doesn't simply teach you general words; he also demonstrates how to personalize your usage of these signals to your individual scenario for maximum effect.

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