How To Make Him Want You More

Do you have a girlfriend who has the most wonderful boyfriend?

The guy with the stunning floppy hair, goofy smile, and enormous heart who is completely devoted to only one person:

His girlfriend.

You’re delighted she found him, but honestly! You’re insanely envious. It’s difficult to take your eyes away from them. The way he pays such close attention to her needs. The way they appear to share thought without saying anything.

He wraps his arms so tightly around her that it’s as if they’re one body .Watching them makes you ache. Because the guy at your side doesn’t treat you that way. It’s not that your man isn’t amazing.

Of course, he’s fantastic. There’s more…What he does to you. He treats you as though you’re someone he’s known for a long time. You know he doesn’t wake up every morning pinching himself for landing someone as good as you.

But you can bet this other person does the exact thing. It’s clear in his eyes.

Every time he looks at the lady he loves, his face beams with delight.

So you ask her whether he has any brothers, half-jokingly, half-hopingly. She simply laughs.

“No, that isn’t what you need.” She leans in close to you and checks to see whether anyone else is listening. “Would you like to hear a secret?”

You eagerly nod.

“Our relationship was just like everyone else’s before,” she says quietly. But then I discovered this bizarre secret. It comes from James Bauer, a relationship coach. It’s like the key to men’s hearts.”

You nod vigorously, but she’s stopped speaking. You keep your sight fixed on her as she moves around the room. Her partner is holding a drink up to her and asks if she wants one without saying anything.

She turns back to you after shaking her head and kissing him. “Do you want to know what it is?” says the narrator. “Yes!” you exclaim. “If it can assist my husband and I read each other’s minds like you two did.”

“All well, then pay attention…”

Women across the world make one universal mistake with men

It’s not their fault. They’re simply following conventional wisdom. Men only fall for great women, according to conventional belief. (Mostly exceptional bodies.)

If you see a woman walking behind her with a man trailing behind her like a puppy dog, common sense dictates she has something you don’t.

It’s such a simple explanation, but…

It’s just incorrect. That lady?

She isn’t any more special than you. (I’m not sure what that implies.) She does, however, have a unique understanding of men. She realizes that what really matters isn’t what he sees when he looks at her…But it’s how he sees himself mirrored in her eyes that interests him.

The truth is this:

Men fall for women because of how those women make them feel

When a man sees himself as a hero in the eyes of a woman, he promises his undying devotion to her. He’s powerless to stop himself.

Most women have no such effect on him. When he’s around most ladies, he thinks he’s a jerk. As though he’s continually making a mistake. He acts as if he requires the services of a nanny. He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him. Who really, really respect him.

And those women will always hold a special place in his heart. So, how do you turn a man into a hero? It sounds a little ridiculous.

Do you need to create a scenario in which he has to save children from a burning house or an elderly lady from being hit by a car?

No. It’s a lot more straightforward than that. There’s one simple thing you can do right now to make your man feel like a hero:

You can thank him warmly for every single thing he does for you.

Did he offer to get you a drink?

Thank him.

Did he clear the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Did he drive you to a meeting?

Thank him.

Even if you don’t see it that way, he’s a hero to you every day.

Has your man ever “rescued” you in a metaphorical sense in the recent week?

Perhaps he put everything on hold to assist you.

Maybe he was there for you when you needed someone to talk to. Perhaps his counsel aided you in making a difficult decision.

We have a tendency to take such things for granted. We’re prepared for it. It dulls our appreciation for the true marvel of having someone to rely on.

But the more you appreciate him…The more he appreciates YOU

They’ve got it all wrong. The easiest approach to gain a man’s gratitude and undying love is to thank him for everything he does for you, no matter how small.

His “Hero Instinct” is triggered.

or the time being, just remember that the secret to unlocking his unwavering loyalty isn’t in all you do for him…But it’s in how you react to all he does for you that matters.

Is it true that he just wrapped his arms around you?

Give a small contented wiggle.

Did he agree to watch the program you wanted to see on TV?

Give him an appreciative kiss.

Reward your partner for the small things he does, and you’ll see that he’ll try more and harder to satisfy you.

He’s a hero to you.

That’s exactly what heroes do.

But that’s just the beginning

There’s a lot more you can do to elicit his heroism. There are phrases, texts, and small requests you can utilize to activate his hero instinct 100 times more powerfully than simply thanking him.

It’s also good studying a handful of these emotional trigger points since no man can resist a woman who makes him feel like a hero.