Being in love
People! Understand this…if you can’t love your partner, I mean really love all of them. Lay them down and make love to every inch that is them. Hold that person in your arms and be grateful that they are in your life, put them on that proverbial pedestal that they so richly belong on, see and feel all the scars and flaws and imperfections they may have and look past them. If you have to ask them what they want or need or if they have to ask you for things you should already know…well maybe you don’t know them like you thought. If you have been together for more than a year, you should already know what they need. You should never have to guess and they should never have to ask. If you can’t look at them naked down to the soul and not think that before you stands the most beautiful creature ever created, you don’t deserve them. If you know their back stories, all the horrors and sadness, the joys and happiness and can’t see them as anything less than amazing, they need to move on. They deserve better. If you can’t handle them at their worst you don’t deserve them at their best. and always remember...if you can’t love them as they are or the way they need to be loved, they will find someone who will.