selfcare
The importance of self-care is paramount; enhance your health and wellbeing, manage your stress, and maintain control under pressure.
How Can I Stop Worrying?
Question: Elaine, I can’t seem to stop worrying, no matter how much I tell myself that things are going to be fine and worrying is silly. I just get myself in a state worrying about possible doom scenarios all the time. Yet I’m in a good job which gives me a comfortable life. How can I stop the worry?
By Elaine Sihera about a month ago in Psyche
Why It Matters To Be Your True Self
Living an authentic life - one where your actions align with your true values and beliefs - can be a very rewarding journey. It’s about letting go of the pressure to conform to those around you and embracing the person you genuinely are. Constantly trying to be someone you’re not is emotionally and mentally exhausting. By embracing your own authenticity, you reduce the stress and anxiety that comes from “putting on a show” to impress others. This is more likely to lead to a greater sense of inner peace, self-acceptance, and happiness. Again, when you are true to yourself, you are likely to attract people who appreciate and respect you for who you really are, not for what they wish you to be. Authentic relationships are built on trust and honesty, creating a safe space for genuine connection and mutual understanding.
By Elaine Sihera about a month ago in Psyche
Disconnection And Death. Top Story - August 2026.
Written by a human, for humans, always. What does it mean to be human? It is a fascinating question that has been asked by all forms of people since at least the beginning of records we can find.
By H.E. Dr. Cody Dakota Wooten, COIE, DFM, DHMabout a month ago in Psyche
Having Difficulty Saying 'NO'?
Many people find it hard to say ‘NO’ to the requests and demands of others, even when they instinctively feel that response is wrong. This struggle to be honest typically stems from both internal insecurities and external pressures, primarily relating to a lack of confidence and a strong desire for approval .
By Elaine Sihera about a month ago in Psyche
Ego Tripping at the Gates of Hell
Please forgive me for this one. It is only a few days before our semester begins at the college where I teach. I have been in touch with our new coordinator, looked over my notes from having had the same group last year, and deliberately avoided going into the building. Our first meeting gave us the option to be online, and I was hoping I could continue with this particular conceit for the rest of the course. And on top of this, I have been told that I might possibly - just maybe - have two whole courses at the college to teach!
By Kendall Defoe about a month ago in Psyche
How Do You Help a Partner With Low Self-Esteem?
In answer to the question, it is important to appreciate that you really can't help someone with low esteem, except on a detached, supportive basis. They has to help themselves because low self-esteem is a rejection of the self - a loathing for who they are.
By Elaine Sihera 2 months ago in Psyche
