The 10 Most Important Dating Tips For Guys - The First Date

Okay, bachelors, time to sharpen your pencils. Dating is more complicated now than it formerly was. But if you remember this first date tip, you'll likely be the most memorable date she's ever been on.

1. Give her a bear hug before the date.

Beginning the date by removing the physical barrier makes the rest of the date simpler. Give her a hug and compliment her on how beautiful she looks to start the date. By expressing your attraction to her right away, you give her the opportunity to do the same during the rest of the date, which makes it simpler to assess how the date is going.

2. Cover the cost of the date.

That's correct! You should still offer to pay for the first few dates even though it's not the 1950s. A nice method to find out how the date is going is to offer to pay. Watch out if she pulls a double fake on her wallet. This indicates that she truly wants to pay for her share and won't feel any sort of obligation to you. On the other side, the lone fake is a positive indication.

3. Dress to impress.

That's obviously bad advice for a first date. But many men attempt to dress up for a date and put on uncomfortable clothing. You should strive to wear something that makes you feel like a million dollars while still dressing up a bit. Buy some clothes if you don't already have any that make you feel like George Clooney in Ocean's 11.

4. Act with class.

She may think chivalry is dead, but if you attempt to make it alive, she will like you more. Open doors for her, raise her chair, lend a hand with the slick sidewalks, etc. Whether they prefer to acknowledge it or not, women like to be catered to.

5. Complement.

It's wise to provide some sincere compliments to your date. You presumably knew that already, unless you're Dennis Leary... However, it's also a good idea to be polite when bringing up acquaintances or people you met on the date. By praising others, you can demonstrate your desire to look on the bright side of things, which is a really appealing quality.

6. Don't take her out to dinner on a first date.

These days, going out for drinks during the week is the standard for a first date. The beverages let everyone relax and it is non-committal and brief due to necessity. Therefore, if you don't know someone well, don't try to wow them with a four-star meal. Keep the heavy equipment for last... These are the greatest first-date suggestions if you want to avoid freaking out your date.

7. Embrace your weirdness.

On dates, people frequently act all glitzy. You basically want to come across as attractive, similar to a job interview. This is a mistake. First off, by erasing what makes you unique, you actually lose your attractiveness... But more crucially, by emphasizing your eccentricities, you'll have a higher chance of meeting a partner who will complement you and put up with your obsession with minimalist free jazz.

8. Change your sheets.

Be ready... The Boy Scouts are knowledgeable in their field. Where is their guide on dating advice for guys? There is always a chance that you will return to your home after going out on a date with someone. Therefore, change the sheets and remove any clutter that is typically left about. If the date ultimately doesn't go well, at least you'll have a tidy home to return to.

9. Kiss Her.

Go for the kiss around the conclusion of the first date, unless you are certain you won't see the woman again. An average date made extraordinary with a fantastic kiss. So develop some testicles and kiss her. She'll be grateful that you did. Probably.

10. Don't try to sleep with her.

It is rarely a good idea to have sex on a first date, despite the advice from 20 seconds ago (you should still clean your apartment!). According to studies, there is a significantly lower likelihood that couples who engage in sexual activity on their first date will go on to form a committed partnership. Therefore, resist the need to insist on staying the night, even if the date is going really well. After all, having something to anticipate is always great, and she'll think you're a gentlemen if you do.