New kind of love bombing is not even about being for real connected with the chosen One. The Lovebombing attack is more about giving a signal from far away virtually speaking openly through a screen or social media as if talking or answering to this person. First is only about focusing the attention on themselves and on the person usually Guy is in love with. Some may even make it accidentally but most of them are doing it on purpose and it's the worst kind of double bullet as it not only collide the lovebombing phase but it is double bullet with the silent treatment in it. As what is the person who is lovebombed or chased doing ? is waiting finally for the connection of any kind beside the virtual reflection of it. There is unfortunatelly a triple gun as there is also a very smart hidden abuse given in a such gentle way that only a person who can energetically receive a message will be able to recognize it. The Guy is usually someone popular, handsome charming but not always, loved by a blind mass of people. Especially girls. He may not be a bad person for them All but He will bring You the worst if You don't realize it and will keep on living His phase of lovebombing plays. All He does want You to not succeed in Life but Alone He will be praising outside How to be gentle to love others and how to be kind. He is just such a jealous guy inside that You need to omit and skip everytime He still does try to suck You in.
The same goes with the girls who know how to chase with Their look and way before you get inside of their real game You might be already married or with a child and She will keep You as a someone next to Her life that is the perfect supply.
Watch out !
and Pay attention to that
and it's not truth that Life is boring without them so You hang out or hang on, on them as some psychologist may say if they never truly heal from narcissist they cant help You heal they only will make even more problems and bring You a negative outlook of other good better people in this world
How can they even talk this way but they do and this information are so unhealthy for me and You
Good people are the most interesting soul on the planete
They are just left behind because they dont write or act like the criminals
It is actually completely opposite
A real loving person gives You a normal beautiful life the beauty of each day that never dies but it evolves in time ! with even more Love to the whole world and being!
It is real paradise to be with One loved trully and fully
This is why all narcissists are doing everything to have such good hearted human being chained to them and isolated from whole world
Good Ones carry a really big Open hearts !
They dont need to lie to attract because They dont care to attract
what they care about is Life
and to have Joy and great moments to feel the Love !
When They Love they Love trully as nobody else because
They do carry it inside themselves
It is never the outsider way
but a truth real Life
never a game or a play !
They dont Look for a business for a chance or for a great match
They just love someone for who they truly are or not are
until They have enough of human Lie if that is not the right person for them
they will always leave because They want someone to create a Home a real Family be stable loving nice and feel like a Peace in Heart not another horror for a quick romance to heal from for years
Once They are in adult Life They progress wiith All quite fast no matter the past
They always see the future in bright light and In Love
In front and in the moment
Yes They do care for so many people out there and for the whole world and They often take All on themselves to know how to help if they can or not can they do help but
then They still have the time for a Life and For Love
even though heavy work and jobs drains them too much at times
I may not be able to answer to comments always even though posting another story or poem
Keep in mind not each person is the same and the heaviness of energies I get are not good for my health I feel the person energy from a comment I can feel their life struggle mental blockages even feel cancer and other not resulted issues from past its not always but it is mostly then I get a huge pain in my body physically so as of that I give myself right to not to answer comment that will not be for real kind or nice give myself the same right as people who never answer or subscribe even if person was visiting their profile with empathic aim and gesture
Because I will automatically and empathically write You message and prepare help in next post whether You use it or not
Also
I need to take care of my health as a healer and be ready for each circumstances and take care of the comfort of my own more than another this time ....speaking from experience
to be ready when times are tough and get some rest in between
Thank You for understanding and not understanding :)
This is why I leave the comment open for someone to maybe comment if they are willing too please be Kind Be Nice
I know life is hard at times too much but its better to heal and to stop rather throw these all energies to bring me down !
Thank You !
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I was once with a narcissist before and yes omggg the lovebombing! It definitely is so dangerous!
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Some wonderful points and insights. A lot to think about
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