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If they want to , they would

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By Sa min Published 11 months ago 3 min read
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The act of saying something is absolutely different from the act of doing something:

Everyone on earth has a tongue to say whatever he or she wants to . However, when it comes to the make itself, it would be difficult to some of us .

A person you are really in love with, might be adore you but can't do anything for you .
A person you might drawn him with words of love , may not be able to do the same but does something for like buying flowers, not forgetting the date you might have the necessary in and so on .

Some said " if they want, they would" , I am not totally agreed with because maybe they want to but they can't for some reasons, you need to figure out by yourself.

The needs you have, might be unnecessary for others, you need the act of words to feel loved , they want the act of doing to feel the same too , we are different, have the same logicality in love but with different need

You might have a good act of doing in your life , people around you give you love by acting forgetting how to express the love by words or you might have a good act of saying in yours, but they around you forget to do something for you , so you start researching in somewhere to just consume your shortage in something you really miss .

The balance is very important to get a healthy life with partner not just in you relationship in love but also in family, work and friends but how we can get the balance if you have the nature itself?

The answer is so simple, by trying not once or twice, more than that to get used to it to be part of you in the end :
You try for someone you want to be with
They try to be too
The equality itself is demanding
If they try for you you have to try to , if you can't, tell them and switch to another and let them go free .
If they don't try and you try is absolutely your mistake giving a value for someone doesn't give you a piece of care , so the solution to move on and apply the rule " if they want to, they would" in this case .

Whenever you feel uncomfortable with someone, leave, don't make excuses for them

The peace you are looking for, is the love with balance you neglected to be as fool convincing yourself that they Will love you .

Move one when you had the exact signs to leave , if you don't, you have to bear the results , you die to stay , they will survive with your dead soul eating you all , when leaving is the better choice, don't choose the torture over peace of leaving.

"If they want you, they would " , it can be real sometimes, but you need to just test or just study the person in front of you completely to know if it fits him or her or not .

Love when it goes in a wrong direction , it turns to be a illness killing you slowly.
Love when it is clear with understanding without listening to mouths around because you are absolutely in understanding for the person you love , it will turn into a holy relationship at the end .

Where your mind wants to go in the treatment with someone, obey your character, don't fake it to make it ,be clear to let them love you clearly and you should be with the same .

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  • Judey Kalchik 11 months ago

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