Five Rules for Asking a Girl Out
Relationship with A Girl
In this Articles I am going to tell you the five golden rules
that you should use when you ask a girl out.
Synopsis
Do Not Call Her Immediately
Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away
Make Your Date More Fun than Stress
Just Tell Her Your Plans Instead Of Asking
Her
Convince Your Girl
It can be quite nerve racking to decide on the best way to
ask a girl out. You need to consider a number of things,
but these are the five rules you should always remember.
Do Not Call Her Immediately
Once you have your hands on the girl’s phone number,
don’t call her straight away. If you appear too eager, she
may think you are pressurizing her, and she may be put off
you altogether.
Give her time to get used to the idea that you will be
phoning her, but don’t leave it too long or someone else
may beat you to it. Usually, waiting for twenty-four to
forty-eight hours is best.
Do Not Ask Her for a Date Straight Away
When you do get around to phoning, don’t just jump into
asking her out on a date. Spend some time chatting about
life in general, or a topic that interests you both. If your
instincts are telling you that you need to get to know each
other a bit better before dating, arrange to meet for coffee
or a lunch just as friends.
Alternatively, if you are arranging any type of group get
together, you tell her she is welcome to come along. That
way, you are not actually inviting her on a date, but it gives
you the opportunity to get to know her better if she does
come.
Make Your Date More Fun than Stress
Some people can make such a big deal out of their first
date, they forget to have fun. Your girl will be much more
impressed if you are relaxed and can show her that you are
enjoying her company and whatever it is you are doing.
If you are stressing out about making sure the date is a
success, you are likely to be trying too hard and that
doesn’t create a good impression and can be just as bad as
being over-confident and blasé about the situation.
When choosing a venue or activity for your first date stick
to something within your comfort zone. You will have
enough nervous energy to contend with, without having
the stress that comes from dealing with a new
environment or activity at the same time.
Just Tell Her Your Plans Instead Of Asking Her
It is very easy to get it wrong when you are choosing what
to do and where to go on a first date. Someone has to take
the initiative, and that should be you. Have some ideas in
mind of what you would like to do, but tell your date what
you're thinking about. Providing she does not object or
make alternative suggestions, you should go ahead and
make the arrangements.
If your suggestions do not meet with your girl’s approval,
ask her what she would like to do instead. You may both
need to compromise to find something you both want to
do.
Depending on how well you have gotten to know each
other, it will improve your chances of arranging dates that
will meet with her approval. You will soon learn whether
she is happy to let you go ahead with arrangements for
your dates without first consulting her.
Many girls these days expect an equal say in the decisions,
and if they don’t get it, they may perceive you as being
domineering and controlling. On the other hand, there
are still a few girls around who are happy to leave all the
decisions to you.
Convince Your Girl
Your first date gives you the opportunity to gather
information about your girl and decide if you are likely to
be compatible if you continue dating. Just as she is
examining you and forming an opinion, you need to do the
same with her personality. If you find that your opinions
are conflicting about the small unimportant things, then
you may have serious differences when it comes to the
important life decisions. Compromising may not be an
option unless both parties are willing.
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