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How-tos for all things poetry; learn how to analyze a poem, construct a haiko, differentiate between a metaphor and simile and more.
Destined Departures
In this life, we are destined to depart. Meeting is merely accidental, and parting is inevitable. After all, joy and sorrow, gathering and scattering are common occurrences that no one can stop. Therefore, when this day comes, we must all learn to say goodbye properly. I often tell you: be more accepting of those who leave, and do not always weep. It is not because I have already let go, but because I know that separation is inevitable. Rather than clinging to the past, it is better to be more carefree.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
The Difference Between a Feeling and a Foundation
“Liking" is the initial imagination; "loving" is the accumulation of time spent together. "Liking" is simply about happiness; "loving" is being willing to take responsibility for that happiness.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
Beyond Blind Strength
The moment you become clear-headed, you have already surpassed your past self. Many believe that after experiencing pain, they should become stronger. But the reality is that some setbacks won’t make you stronger, and some wounds won’t make you braver. They only do one thing: help you see clearly.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
Beyond Right and Wrong
A good partner is someone who truly empathizes with you. How important is empathy? When you are sad or have made a mistake, their first thought isn’t to correct you, but to comfort you—prioritizing your emotions. Reasoning comes later. More than being right or wrong, they care about your well-being.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
Drop the Stone
Let go of your attachments; stop pushing a stone that doesn't belong to you. We often try desperately to move an enormous stone—one inscribed with past regrets, the arrangements of fate, the opinions of others, and even the lives of others.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
Under the Moon’s Glow
In the world of emotions, I believe the best mindset is this: You can still like what you like, but allow yourself not to possess it for the time being; you can still oppose what you oppose, but allow it to exist. Like loving someone—if they are there, love them well; if they insist on leaving, let them go. Don't be obsessive, don't cling, and don't disturb. When they are present, love them wholeheartedly; when they are gone, wish them well.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 months ago in Poets
