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Rachel’s love story with a ghosting man, She know Why do guys ghost her!

What she did to make him back to her ?

By Victoria EddPublished about a year ago 5 min read
Rachel’s love story with a ghosting man, She know Why do guys ghost her!
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Rachel love story is similar to most women's love stories, as it is filled with a lack of understanding of the man's actions and his sudden disappearance.

Is there any solution? Yes

Is it simple? you could see by yourself

So follow her story to the end

If you met her, I'm sure you'd hit it off right away since that's how she is with everyone. But, for some weird reason, she always has the worst luck when it comes to finding love.

I got a call one night just as I was about to leave the office to go home. Rachel was the one. I immediately recognized it... the catch in her throat... the pain in her voice.

I dashed over to the Starbucks around the corner from my workplace to meet her. It was clear from the dripping eyeliner and the red, swollen eyes that things were nasty this time.

She informed me about Mike. She was smitten and in love three months ago.

They'd met at her closest friend's wedding and hit it off right away. He did everything correctly. He brought her lunch at work as a surprise. He called her almost every night. He also organized exciting and romantic dates.

And Rachel felt like she'd finally discovered the love she'd been looking for for so long. This was true until three months later... When something every woman fears occurs... Rachel had no idea why he had become so quiet and aloof, or what she had done wrong.

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They used to be nearly inseparable. You could almost feel the flames flying between them.

But now... the unexpected "drop-ins" had vanished. He stopped calling at the end of the night. When she texted him, he would respond hours later with one-word responses. Rachel stayed calm and composed.

Rachel had reached a breaking point after two days of agonizing quiet. Even though she never intended to appear "needy," she left 8 missed calls on Mike's cell phone that night, as well as many texts that she could see he'd read but chose to ignore. That night, she cried herself to sleep. It wasn't until the next afternoon that Mike responded.

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She almost let it go to voicemail, but changed her mind at the last second and picked it up.

Rachel wanted to shout, but Mike apologized and explained that he had a lot on his plate at work. He reassured her that everything was OK and suggested they go out to supper the next night at their favorite restaurant. Then he promised to call her the next day to set up a time.

Mike had no idea Rachel was only hearing what she wanted to hear. Rachel felt like she could finally breathe again as she hung up the phone, and for the first time in days, she slept like a baby that night.

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She even came home early from work the next day to straighten her hair and put on Mike's favorite dress. She then waited for his phone call...

Mike's call, of course, never arrived. And despite her numerous texts, he never responded. Mike had ended the connection.

He vanished from her life without explanation or farewell. Worst of all, she was too humiliated to even call her friends for help. She couldn't believe that something so perfect could break so suddenly.

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Rachel’s friend,James Bauer, is a coach so she decide to tell him everything. James hadn't even touched his coffee yet. He asked if he could see her cell phone. He wanted to see how bad things actually were.

James heart sank as he scrolled through pages of unanswered texts. But suddenly something caught his eye. It was the last text Mike wrote to Rachel before leaving. One phrase in particular stood out to James. It was almost like a covert request for assistance. That's when it struck James.

Variations of the same sentence appeared repeatedly as James sifted through more of these notes. He realized he'd discovered a trend. And it occurred to Mike that this pattern was linked to a deep-seated obsession in the minds of all men.

James finally realized what Rachel needed to do. It was a long shot, but he told her about his plan...

James informed her that because Mike wasn't answering his phone, she needed to activate his secret fixation, with a signal that would quickly catch his attention. Even a text message or a Facebook message would suffice.

So James texted Rachel a 12-word message that she could send to Mike. And even though James didn't realize it at the time, I had just created the very first "Secret Signal". Because hidden in those 12 innocent words was a subtle trigger phrase that was about to change everything

Rachel was skeptical at first...

But as she read the words out loud, her eyes lit up and James knew it clicked for her. So she crossed her fingers and hit send. Rachel was shocked when that very night, Mike showed up at her apartment door. It was his shaky voice that gripped her instantly and made her listen more intently to the words he spoke next:

"I've realized that I won't be happy without you in my life."

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He had never seemed more certain about anything. She saw a shift in the connection right away. That it had. Mike's deeper side began to reveal itself to her. He was much friendlier and more open. He also appeared to be healthier and happy. They were soon completely in love again.

Now, if you're going through something like Rachel was, James want you to know: it's not your fault. It's not something you did or didn't do. Because a man's heart will always be elusive until you understand what drives him on a primal, instinctive level and how the subtle things you say and do deeply affect him.

And that all comes down to understanding his Hero Instinct. By now you're probably wondering what exactly IS the Hero Instinct... right?

Well, on the surface it's a deep, biological drive inside every man to feel needed. In other words, Men are secretly OBSESSED with feeling irreplaceable... like they're the only man for the job. But it's so much deeper than that.

You see, men are so powerfully drawn to anything that makes them feel this way that it's the driving force behind their every thought and action without them even knowing it. To some extent, a man might get this hidden need met from his job, hobbies, or friends. But nothing in the world can satisfy that need like a woman... A woman who knows this secret.

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About the Creator

Victoria Edd

I am a relationship expert who encourage better communication and listening skills between couples, so the couples will gain a deep understanding of themrself, resolve frustrations and deepen intimacy.

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