dating
All about dating. First dates, three years into a relationship, Tinder, and more.
5 Ultimate Ways to Catch the Best Date
Dating is a universal urge for everyone. It is one way to release the intimacy that has been kept inside for some time. Anyone can get a date, but having a great time and fun is something one should master. Adult dating sites have been sprouting like mushrooms everywhere. This is to cater the growing number of individuals engaging to such casual dating option. With such number, competition is getting tougher and chances of getting the best one is getting slimmer. As a lion becomes more aggressive to catch its delicious prey, you need to unleash the lion in you to have the ultimate catch.
By Fester Hammer4 years ago in Humans
An Open Letter to My Current Self
Dear Self, I know you're having a hard time lately and hurting very deeply. I hope you know that you're not alone. You've been having flashbacks of your ex punching you in the face and then swearing he loves you. You've been hurting and wishing you had someone to hold you and keep you safe from people like him. But the truth is, nobody can protect you fully from things. You have to protect yourself sometimes. You can't rely on someone else to heal you. You have to heal yourself. I know it's difficult, believe me I know. You've cried alot. You've felt like absolute crap. But look at what you've done in the meantime. You've shared your story on social media and had so many people reach out and tell you that you're not alone. You've shown solidarity with your fellow survivors and that has been more rewarding then I can imagine. You will get through this. Healing isn't linear as I've said before. You have to just ride the waves, no matter how hard they may be. You have to understand that you will in fact be ok. You will get through this. Someone is going to love you and you will be happy. But for right now you need to learn how to love yourself. You need to unlearn all the lies your ex told you. You need to unlearn all the lies you told yourself. You need to learn some hard lessons. You've already learned alot and I want to give you credit for that. But you still have a lot more to learn. Your healing journey isn't over yet. You need to understand that love shouldn't hurt. You need to understand that you will in fact be okay. Everything is going to work itself out. You;ll find yourself. But you need to heal. And while that may seem impossible, it's not. You need to let go of all your anger and hatred of men, you need to realize that love shouldn't hurt and you need to forgive yourself and give yourself the apology your ex is not going to give you. He's to selfish for that. You need to soften your heart and let some light in. You can't live in darkness forever. You have to give yourself time to heal. This will take time and while you may in fact get impatient, it will be worth it when your done healing. You'll feel lighter and happier. You'll feel more at peace. You'll feel loved and will appreciate things that much more because of all you went through. You're probably saying to yourself that you've been through hell and it's been 3 years and you deserve peace and something good. That's all true! But you also need to heal. Think about it. If you got into a relationship now, You'd probably end up hurting the other person because your so hurt and still have a lot of healing to do. You need to take this time and get to know yourself again. Really figure out your boundaries and figure out what you want. You have to take this time and get to know you and actually be single. You've never been single for this long. And you've never had a healthy relationship so you need to learn what that is. Take your time. The right person will come at the right time and everything will fall into place. I know I sound like a fortune cookie but someday you'll read this and cry because you'll realize I was right. You'll realize why you had to deal with this.
By Amanda Nicole4 years ago in Humans
Female Volcels: a Year's Reflection
Nearly a year ago I wrote a blog about female Volcels. At that time, my focus was on myself, and how I had chosen to become voluntarily celibate because I wanted to go through a period of self-reflection; to introspect upon my thoughts and feelings, who I was, and who I wanted to be as it related to what I was going through at that time.
By Sai Marie Johnson4 years ago in Humans
If You're Going To Dump Someone, Blindside Them
He dumped me. Right then and there. Paralysed with shock. One minute we were together, the next minute we weren't. My first boyfriend was an ass like that. He dumped on our two-year anniversary. I seriously thought we were about to celebrate the day, our love, and how far we had come together.
By Ellen Frances4 years ago in Humans
Romantic Ways to Show Love while Dating a Latin Chat Line Partner
Dating someone special from the Latin community can sometimes be a difficult task because they have different ways to express their affection. So, it is essential to be careful while you are communicating with your local Latin chat line partner.
By singles phonechat4 years ago in Humans
She has the Sunlight
When you read this, hopefully this finds you with curiosity on your mind and wanting to know more about the guy who is writing you. When you read this, I hope this finds you in the mood to have dinner with me and just relax the night away in good conversation. When you read this, I hope you understand that I know that anything good is worth taking the time to explore. When you read this, I hope you know the joy in the art of man meeting a woman. When you read this, I hope there is joy in your heart to explore the joy in mine. When you read this, I hope you understand why I look at you as if you have all attention from the sun. When you read this, I hope you understand that I am a hopeless romantic and I don't mind romancing you.
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 years ago in Humans
Why Polygamy is for women
When most people hear the word polygamy, what often comes to mind are religious polygamists in Utah, or the desire for many men to have access to multiple partners, but what we don’t often hear about are the benefits for woman and how, when implemented healthily, polygamy can be a sustainable form of relationship for many women in society.
By Aalia Zealous4 years ago in Humans
