breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

Love, feelings, and rejections don't appear to bother them at all
Perhaps your recent split was traumatic. Perhaps someone you really care about has just rejected you. Perhaps you just discovered that particular someone is looking for someone else after seeing them on Tinder.
By sara trif4 years ago in Humans
Modern-Day Mix Tape
For me, I travel through time and space through music. Music is my time travelling companion. The force that opens the portal. It is and always has been music. I am able to be moved from here to there most easily through what I hear. Music is how I travel through time. Music is my first love and my last love. I have had many loves in between where it started and where it will end, but it always has been and always will be music for me. My one true. That and Jesus, which goes without saying but I should say it. Considering Jesus loves music. "Don't be a prude- not when it comes to music" is something I think I have heard him say....
By Jamie LeFebvre 4 years ago in Humans
Things that Destroy Your Life
Constructive and good behaviors make it easier to groom the personality and produce you a girl. Just like these kinds of, some negative together with bad addictions as well exist that in the event added to your health, destroy your lifetime life completely. The hazard is that these kinds of habits enter your health silently without helping you discover and you occur to know as soon as they had harmed you completely. Together with we are planning to discuss these kinds of 6 venomous points that can destroy your health.
By Cosmin Child4 years ago in Humans
We can open our hearts to a larger experience
Many of us are aware that expectations frequently sabotage our actual real-life experiences. We often have preconceived notions about how events will turn out or how people will treat us, which can cause cognitive dissonance when things don't go as planned.
By sara trif4 years ago in Humans
Healing isn't always linear
A strange mistress is time. Deep down, we all understand that everything changes with time. We all understand that, given enough time, even the most intense and persistent pain ultimately goes away.
By sara trif4 years ago in Humans
3 Pillars of Shame
Friendzoned I was the one that wanted to be your exception. The one that made the difference for you. You closed your heart to everyone and yet, once you entertained dating, I wasn’t even on the list. Friend zoned again only to be someone’s braids maid but never the bride. You laid your statement so it’s clear to me, yet I’m still led on like Nicolas cage to bees.
By The Kind Quill4 years ago in Humans
My Boyfriend Says He Just Wants To Be Alone (My Boyfriend Told Me He Wants To Be Left Alone)
Why does my boyfriend need space? That's one of the most common questions dating women ask. Men are notorious for not being as open as we are when it comes to sharing what they're feeling. Instead of addressing things they let their actions speak for them. That leaves us to trying to sort through what he's feeling or thinking. Unfortunately, we often misread what's going on with a man when he says he needs space or time. That's typically because we just don't want to face the truth. You need to though, if you hope to keep him.
By Ivy Jade4 years ago in Humans
Keep the ‘M’ and ‘E’ Gates Open in ‘MarriagE’ - Don’t Let ‘M-E’ Get in the Way!
Marriage should be repressive, not oppressive. Restrictive, yet liberating. Stressful, yet peacefully secure. Repressive vs oppressive meaning holding something back, instead of unjustly holding someone down.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast4 years ago in Humans
By A Thread
I looked on you with adoring eyes for I saw only your innocence, not foreshadowing the dark cloud lingering in the distance.
By Nova Binx4 years ago in Humans
How to stop loving someone who doesn't value me?
Love arrives suddenly, for greater or worse. It is unconcerned with reasonable assessments of what is best for us from a pragmatic standpoint. It just appears as a wave of feelings when we fall in love and affects our way of perceiving life in a matter of days or weeks.
By Nouman ul haq4 years ago in Humans
Do not allow anyone to criticize your high standards
After being single for nearly four years in a row, if there's one thing I've discovered, it's that having personal boundaries and upholding them can be the difference between being unhappy in relationships and not.
By sara trif4 years ago in Humans
Sweet Poison
Its 5:37 in the morning. Can’t sleep. Another restless night. Not a bright start to my day. Its been 37 days since the last time I heard her voice. 49 days since I saw her face,held her hand and kissed her cheeks. According to her calculations, I should’ve been doing well by now. Calculations can be wrong, specially when done by a girl.
By Yasmeen taleb4 years ago in Humans