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Life happens to everyone

You are not better than anyone

By Omotayo AdabaPublished about a year ago 3 min read
Life happens to everyone
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You would think that some certain things cannot happen to you because you feel you have lived a morally decent life or you have deep down considered yourself better than others This is up until the things you thought cannot happen to you starts happening and the people you think you are better than are having it far better than you do in life All our lives we have been told to live a certain way to get certain results only to find that life does not always play by the rules

You start feeling humble with the realization that you are all the same and no one is better than the other only our strengths are different and we succeed and fail at different times of our lives We win and lose, we cry and we laugh differently .

When you get to the point of brokenness in spirit and realize that it’s by grace and not by might that you are pushing through, then you have really started living and now you know that you have to be intentional about absolutely everything. Everything from the way you make decisions to how you treat people, realising that you life is not by chance and that you yourself was made to be here purposefully.

Will this make you any better at treating people? It should but I think we know by now that we do whatever we think its right though it's wrong to others.

All of a sudden you realise that the colour of your skin doesn't matter. Your insecurities are yours alone. The amount of money you have or the clothes you were are not that important What is important is your spirit man and how you are handling your day to day You get to a point were you just don't care You just want to be happy.

Life happens, and there's no denying it.

Whether we are ready for it or not, unexpected events can turn our world upside down in an instant. Sometimes, these events are joyful and uplifting, and other times, they are devastating and heartbreaking.

The unpredictability of life means that it's essential to be open to change and to be adaptable. We must learn to cope with the good and the bad, understand that things won't always go as planned, and find ways to deal with the curveballs thrown our way.

One of the most challenging aspects of life happens is dealing with loss. Losing a loved one, a job, or a relationship can be incredibly difficult to come to terms with, and the pain can feel overwhelming at times. However, as tough as it may be, we must recognize that we have the strength and resilienceto push through and find hope for the future.

Another aspect of life happens that is often overlooked is the joy and beauty that can come from unexpected moments. Perhaps it's a chance encounter with someone we haven't seen in years, a beautiful sunset on an ordinary day, or the kindness of a stranger that touches us. These moments remind us of the wonder and magic of life, even in the midst of chaos and stress.

Ultimately, life happens, and we must embrace it for all its joys and challenges. We may not always have control over the events that take place, but we do have control over how we react and respond to them. By staying positive, staying flexible, and staying open to new experiences, we can navigate the ups and downs of life and come through them stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled than ever before.

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