Something that is experienced for the first time, will continue to be remembered, right? Just like falling in love. The effects can vary.
There is always an impact of love that is felt. Love can make someone happy or sad. In fact, some people say love can change a person.
Parents say that first love is something that is never forgotten because it reminds them of their youth.
Then, what about you, when you remember your first love? Sad or happy? Here are the reasons why it's hard for you to forget your first love.
1. Too many memories
First love has many memories in it. You must remember one of them. Yes! Because he was the first person who made you dare to approach someone. The simple things you've done to him, don't make you forget him just like that.
The approach period that you have experienced is certainly a story in itself. How he first accepted you or how you conveyed your feelings. Hahaha... You can smile to yourself when you remember it.
2. Deepest feelings
There are some people who think first love is overrated. It's like you and your first love have an inner bond. It's as if everything you do is always connected to your first love. As if you found your soulmate. Do you dare to admit it?
3. Thinking he is perfect
Some people say that when love is first, it takes a lifetime to forget it. First love is like having your eyes closed but focusing on one thing. The positive side dominates in judging it. Often you don't care about the negative side of him. But that's where the specialty of first love lies. Sincerity plays a bigger role.
4. Being a role model in life
Falling in love is not a choice. But when your first feeling of love comes to the right person, you are also motivated to change for the better. Many people think that love can change someone who was originally lazy to be diligent.
5. Knowing fo too long
They say that when you're a teenager, you're bound to meet your first love. And you could have met him at school or in your circle of friends. At first, you and his are friends. If you're lucky, you can become the girlfriend of your first love. It all depends on your efforts to get it.
Knowing from a teenager to now can sometimes weigh on a person. Meeting first love will be a different impression on everyone. Even if they are no longer in contact at all.
But that strong feeling will always arise when meeting the first love. So, the longer you know him, the harder it will be to forget.
Time may pass, my friend! But first love is not erased by time even if you can fall in love for the umpteenth time.
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5 Sweet quotes about first love
Rosemary Rogers : "First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever."
Benjamin Disraeli : "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end."
Maya Angelou : "The loss of young first love is so painful that it borders on the ludicrous."
Patrick Dempsey : "When you discover first love as a teenager, your whole life revolves around it and you open yourself up to it."
Eric Kandel: "Memory has always fascinated me. Think of it. You can recall at will your first day in high school, your first date, your first love."
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Love, what is it really, it is different for everyone, but first love is usually infatuation, depending on who you ask. But, interesting views on it anyway.