fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
BDSM: How Far Is Too Far?
As far as fetishes go, bondage can be one of the more versatile. However fun it may be for those willing to participate, there will always be someone who believes it is little more than abuse. How do you know when your bondage play has gone too far? Where is the line between BDSM and abuse?
Tara RobertsPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
The Club
The air was smoky and the lights were very dim as I passed a group of maybe five guys sitting at a table. I practically had to squint to make out where I was going. I felt their eyes on me as I swung into the ladies washroom. I stopped to check my reflection in the mirror, my friend was right, the contact lenses certainly did allow my big brown eyes to be seen better. I couldn't believe the person looking back was me. What a difference from a year ago.
Frankie LanePublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Tell It Like It Is
When it comes to sexual relationships, there are some areas that can be a little tricky. There are the average questions of, who's more sexually advanced than the other, is my physical physique up to par or, am I doing the things he likes? What if your questions ranged further? What if you had a sexual itch that needed to be scratched and struggling with how to ask without scaring him off?
Tara RobertsPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Corset Ways
"The way of the Corset is tight, but will hug you as long as you need. Remember me when you are naked. Remember I held you tight and long." M.F
Megan FinwallPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Dominance in the Bedroom
So, you've been asked to take part in a Dominant-submissive role in the bedroom. A part of you is excited, while the other is overwhelmed by the concept. Never fear, it's not that complex.
Tara RobertsPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Submission Is Not Weakness
To begin with, I have no more psychological issues than the everyday person. I was neither sexually abused at any point in my life nor do I suffer from any form of sexual disorder: I am completely capable of enjoying a sexual encounter without the aid of BDSM. I also knew early on that my sexual preferences were anything but traditional. Becoming excited over the scent and feel of smoothed rubber was a dead giveaway.
Tara RobertsPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Leather
Scuse me while I wax poetic for a few minutes, will you? Today, I took a moment to take off all the pins on my vest and clean it. A moment of posterity struck me as I tended my hide and I’d like to share it with those that might like to read it.
Nikki CollinsPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Why Showing a Vanilla Your Fetlife Profile is Not Always a Great Idea...
It may seem like I've got a bit of a downer on the vanillas at the moment. I haven't but as I've said in my previous writings, I came to a conclusion about them this week. So on that premise, I thought I'd share some of the amusing conversations I have had.
The Kinky FoxPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Three
In my other blog - the autism one - I spoke about an encounter I had with a bull. I lived on a farm when I was young, and this bull used to terrify me. One day, I tried to stare it down, and it started shaking its head, stamping its hooves, snorting loudly - generally acting like a fucking psychopath. My nerve broke and I ran away from it. I was completely safe from it. It was in a pen, and there was no way it could get at me. But it was still a terrifying moment, for an eight-year-old boy.
Graham FarquharPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Two
Theres visited me before Cathy and her friend left, so there was crossover between them. I don’t really think they got a lot of time to talk to each other, though. Cathy and her friend were very independent and I barely saw them through the day.
Graham FarquharPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Introduction
A Brief Look at Institutionalised Bigotry I’m not going to make any unrealistic claims, here. There’s no way I’ll say that I’m not sexist or misogynistic or anything like that. We all have those tendencies within us. We all have moments of misanthropy, bigotry, homophobia, transphobia, - all sorts of prejudices. Because we all have things that shape us. Environments that raise us and nurture us... but which also seed in those insidious little details that limit us. Those little voices at the back of our heads, which don’t really belong to us. They were put there by our parents, our teachers, the other kids in the school playground, the media, the newspapers - a million other sources.
Graham FarquharPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
Common Fetishes You Didn't Know the Name For
Fetishes were, at one point, considered to be a taboo. Even now, they are considered to be taboo by most peoples' standards. In psychology, fetishes actually used to be universally categorized as paraphilias — a sexual attraction considered to be unhealthily deviant.
Mackenzie Z. KennedyPublished 6 years ago in Filthy
