By Corinne Farago
Please read parts 1 through 3 before you read this one. I repeat some of these definitions, I'm sorry there's a lot of information out there.
Ah, the fetish. That peculiar quirk that does it for you in a very special way. Most of us know what a fetish
is, but like most things in life, they can span most of the spectrum, from the everyday, to the extreme.
Fem + Domme = Female Dominate. However and very traditionally, this was a female led and male submissive relationship. In this new era of inclusion this becomes female led with any variation of submissive partner. I am, personally, what you call heteroflexible. This means I am attracted to men for relationships but if the right person came along that was not male; I would be open to possibilities. So for the purpose of the remainder of this article I will address Femdom as female led and male submissive.
There has always been more to kink than meets the eye. From the outside looking in, dog collars and latex coupled with a good old-fashioned beating might not be enticing to the average individual, but to others it is a way of life. Embracing a kinky lifestyle for these individuals hosts more than the baseline sexual fulfillment. I myself have found that much more is impressed upon you than bruises once submerged. If you find yourself enthralled, curious, and a little tentative, you’re in the right place, read on.
Hello and welcome to this week’s installment of SubSays, where I use all my experience and knowledge to explain all things kinky! Today, we’ll be addressing some anxiety—inducing concerns you may have if you are just starting out in your kink community, giving you all the tools and resources necessary to make not only a wonderful first impression, but to help you find some friends a whole lot faster!
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Without further ado!
On a rainy day with nothing to do and nothing to watch, I got to wondering…what is the most common fetish?
The bride wore white. Cloistered in a room where the covered windows were decked with creamy roses, Marcia could barely believe that she was finally here, in a church, about to be married to a real, honest-to-goodness prince. Her very own Prince Charming. Prince Joseph Stewart Carrington III, anyway. But would she have all of these ladies in waiting if she weren't about to become a princess? Would she have this opulent dress, hand-stitched with pearls by palace seamstresses? Someone teased her hair as someone else put the finishing touches on her fingernails. All around her, women cooed and glowed over her. She tried to enjoy the privacy. Outside, and for the rest of her life, a media circus waited.
Let me start this story by saying that I in no way judge what types of sexual activities people prefer. My stories are my take on situations, from a pretty vanilla girl, and are my perspective only.
Hello again and welcome back to another installment of SubSays. I’m excited to announce a new series of articles called “BDSM Explained” where I take basic concepts of the wonderful world of BDSM and completely explain them in their entirety. If you have any suggestions for future articles, of if there’s something in particular that you’d like an answer to, head on over to my twitter @SubSaysHello where I will respond within 24hours!
Without further ado, let’s explain what exactly a “submissive” is.
I have a confession, OK maybe a few but this one is about women! Being so secretive for so many years is a wonderful thing, until you have to tell SOMEONE. Well I love them! Not as much as men, but getting a woman here and there is a complete must in my world and if a man I’m fucking brings one to me, that's ultimate bonus points for him. Some men are weary about that though, not all are comfortable with that type of situation. They have had their own experiences with threesomes (and obviously not ones they are fond of), but I’m telling them that I’m different. I will not get attached. I will not choose pussy over dick. That’s just the way it is. Truth be told, it’s an experience I recommend for every woman. But you have to be open minded or you will get completely fucked up.
You can keep your sparkly vampires. They’re not for me. Give me a shaggy, wild, barely-controlled beast of a man any day. I want hair and fur and claws and rippling muscle. And that’s exactly what I got with him.