Exploring sexuality tends to be a unique experience for everyone. Not only because each person has their own unique attractions and tastes but also because each person experiences sexuality differently. How to have an orgasm comes naturally to some people but it’s common for others to struggle. It is especially common for vulva people to have a harder time achieving orgasm. This can lead some people to think that there’s something wrong with them but that’s not true.
Does penis size make a difference? This is one of the most asked questions about sex. Cis-gendered men, in particular, tend to worry about this particular problem. Our society gives many examples of the idea of great size as the key to masculinity and sexual prowess. It’s in much of the marketing we see, stories that are told, and the butt of jokes. This subject causes a lot of anxiety for a lot of people. The question is… should it?
Do you put any thought into what you grab to clean up after sex or masturbating? Or do you just grab the first thing that comes to hand? Selecting the right material to clean up afterward does actually make a difference. Certain types of material are better for absorbing moisture as well as reducing the risks of any bacterial infections. You shouldn’t just be rubbing any old thing onto your genitals. The skin in this area is particularly sensitive. Vulvas can be particularly sensitive to bacteria and could end up developing an infection.
Have you ever wondered if you should fake an orgasm? Or do you worry that your partner might be? Is it normal for people to fake them? The subject of fake orgasms can be a bit of a touchy one for some people. Many people feel that despite what others say, they never get a straight answer. It can be very upsetting and cause problems in a relationship. So let’s dig into the reasons people might fake an orgasm, why it can be upsetting and if it’s a good idea to do so.
Let’s admit it, we all want to experience those full-body, Earth-shattering orgasms. But when it comes to sex, men aren’t as liable to trade tips. This is a shame, because most men could use some help in the bedroom, both when it comes to pleasing their partner and making their own orgasms stronger. I have made a list of ways to please your man. Everyone is different in their own way but I can assure you that it’s okay to try something new once in a while, as long as you and your partner are in the same page. Some people may be new to experimenting in their sex life and that’s perfectly fine!
You will hear people say that it’s easier to think about the bad that might happen because so many people do it. There are lot of potential ways we can imagine a situation going wrong and also going right. During the COVID crisis I have noticed that more subs and subjects are feeling overwhelmed by pleasure when they can experience it authentically through the experiences we share. As a Hypno Dom I offer experiences of comfort, structure, acceptance, challenge, acceptance, and perspectives that do more than allow a person to stretch out of their comfort zone. I offer new perspectives and stories that can change one’s mind and how they live their life. While I can talk about that to a person who is new, I don’t believe it can be fully understood until it is experienced for oneself. After sharing these experiences, I’d like to ask you if you’ve ever thought it was possible for a person to be overwhelmed by pleasure?
A lot of stuff has made its way up my butt. I grew from a curious boy with a bag of marbles to a sharpie-toting teenager to an adult roaming the oh-what-do-we-have-here aisle of various sex shops. That all changed when I found myself up on a surgical table, held down by four nurses, having that part of my anatomy sliced open.
We all know that it can sometimes be hard to understand the mindset of the opposite sex, especially when it comes to intimacy. Unfortunately, this lack of understanding can often leave one partner or the other feeling as if they could enjoy themselves more. So, ladies, here are some things that men wish you knew about sex which, once you do know, you can use to step up your game in the bedroom.