Nila  Dear

Nila Dear

True stories of love, relationships, heartbreak, & happiness.

Shared in hopes you find entertainment, laughter, tears, mistakes, growth, recognition, reflection, education, hope, realisations, comfort, & something positive.

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  • Nila Dear
    Published 5 months ago
    Sad on Valentines Day?

    Sad on Valentines Day?

  • Nila Dear
    Published 7 months ago
    The Friend Zone

    The Friend Zone

    We all know what the friend zone means, it's a pretty common term nowadays, but what does it really mean? People tend to see it as a negative place, somewhere they're put when they're not 'enough' for someone to date. But I see it differently. I see it as a place to properly get to know someone, build a solid friendship and create a deep connection.
  • Nila Dear
    Published 7 months ago
    Beautiful Man Part2

    Beautiful Man Part2

    Beautiful Man Part 2
  • Nila Dear
    Published 8 months ago
    Can you be friends with benefits?

    Can you be friends with benefits?

    Are you able to make it work? I did. But there's no secret or formula to it. I truly believe it depends on your relationship with your friend and what you expect from it. The factor if it will work or not is surrounded by communication. I was lucky enough to have it happen organically with a very close friend. So here is my experience.
  • Nila Dear
    Published 8 months ago
    10 Early Narcissism Signs

    10 Early Narcissism Signs

    I'm writing this to help you. Help you because narcissists are ever so tricky to spot, and they are all over dating apps. I can't provide you with a textbook step by step guide, but I can describe one experience I've had ( I have had quite a few rough times with narcissists ) but this story is short because I SAW the signs and applied what I had already been through, APPLIED them, and dodged a bullet. This is NOT to make you paranoid, but aware. Because a narcissist will ruin your life, that I can promise you.
  • Nila Dear
    Published 8 months ago
    Snowflake & Coconut

    Snowflake & Coconut

    This is a tale of a classic move us girls do; we try to change a man's mind when they say they don't want to date you.