Lena Bailey
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Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime
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Columbine
So I decided to continue the 31 posts of creepy even though it is no longer October, but I missed a few days so here we go. A lot of you may not think of Columbine as creepy, but some of the stuff that came out about the two shooters was creepy and the events leading up to the shooting were creepy. It's also creepy that two teenagers would even think about killing people. I consider true crime to be sometimes creepy.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Criminal
BDSM Masters/Mistress
A Master and Mistress are kinds of doms in the BDSM lifestyle. I may say Master more in this post, but I will mean Master or Mistress. Mistresses and Masters are the same thing, but a Master is the male term and Mistress is female. A lot of people do this lifestyle very differently, but I will tell you the basics and what the majority of the community can agree on. They usually are with a submissive who identifies as a slave. I wrote a whole story on here about slaves. Slaves are sometimes seen as objects and belongings. Most of the time they're seen as property to their Masters, wearing a collar. Masters sometimes even name their slaves.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Filthy
Play Buddies and FWB
I really want to continue doing posts on how to do certain dynamics or teach you about certain dynamics. This one will be really simple and might be enlightening to some of you. So let's jump in, shall we? If you don't know what play buddies are, it's just what it sounds like. It's when two adults decide to do sexual stuff to each other but maybe not go all the way. If they go all the way, it may evolve to friends with benefits (FWB) possibly. Friends with benefits is where two friends (again adults) decide to maintain a friendship but fuck and maybe play on occasion. There's different variations of this, but this is the main dynamic of this variety.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Filthy
My Time at a Swingers Club
So for this blog, I can't tell you what the club is called, all I can say is it's one in my home state of Georgia. The reason that I can't tell you the name is because I don't know how this blog is going to go and I don't know how the club owner would feel about me talking about his club on a non-kink or swinger site.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Filthy
Splurge
I'm trying to mix it up with my blog posts. While I like talking about dating and such, I don't always want to talk about it. The good news is that there is going to be lots to talk about with dating, I'm sure of it. So let's talk about money and splurging.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Journal
Cheating
I have been with men and a woman who've been cheated on. It sucks, they accuse you of doing stuff that you haven't done, and it strains the relationship. I was with one guy when I had drinks with someone else. I didn't do anything wrong, it was just drinking. He thought I did something that I shouldn't have and broke up with me. I cried all night feeling horrible. I never told him all of the details about that night; he just assumed the worst.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Humans
The Open Letter to My Sexual Assailant
To the guy that sexually assaulted me, You may not know what you did to me, or if you do, you may not want to admit to it. I know what you did, I know that it was something horrible. You sexually assaulted me. I know you think you did nothing wrong but I see it otherwise. I tried to forget about it, I tried to forgive you but it's so hard. I have said and done not so nice things to you but I felt like it was the right thing to do. In some weird way, I didn't want to hurt you even though your actions have hurt me.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Viva
Gun Control
Yet another mass shooting and people are saying that there needs to be gun control. What people forget is that the young men that killed and wounded people at Columbine got their guns illegally because they (or at least one of them) were 17. The guy who wounded and killed people at a Las Vegas concert got all of his guns over time and most of them if not all of them weren't banned or outlawed at the time. The guys who killed people at Aurora, Sandy Hook and several other places had mental health issues. The man that killed people at Pulse did so because he was an extremist or had an issue with gay people. So as you can see, it's not the lack of gun control, it's the lack of enforcing the laws. The only new law we need is helping those who are disturbed before they hurt someone else. There may be some laws about bigger guns that need to be passed but we don't need too many laws. Why make it harder on sane and safe gun owners because of the crazy unsafe people? Also, laws won't make a difference to criminals. If someone wanted to do something bad, they will find a way to do it. We also can't figure out or say who is going to use their guns or weapons for harm.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in The Swamp
Queer Eye Reboot
So if you guys don't know Queer Eye is now back but on Netflix, which is great news for me because I liked what I saw of the original, but I don't have Bravo. I would get to see it when I house sat or whatever. The original Queer Eye was called Queer Eye for the Straight and premiered in July of 2003 on Bravo. It was so popular that it had a spin off version for women called Queer Eye for the Straight Girl, but the spin off wasn't as popular and only lasted one season. The original fab 5 had the same kind of makeup or structure as this reboot, having one that was an expert in the categories of food, decorating, fashion, culture and grooming.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Geeks
'Vanillas'
So in the world of sex, there are two categories: kinky and vanilla. Kinky is where people are into stuff that goes beyond traditional sex, like restraints, orgasm control, and butt plugs. Vanilla is anything that involves regular anal, oral, or vaginal sex. Sometimes vanilla people use kinky once in a while to spice things up. Sometimes they come to the kinky side permanently. Vanillas sometimes badmouth the kinky people because they don't understand or they're just closed-minded and/or judgmental. Some kinky people have not been very nice to the vanillas either. One reason is that some of them may have been hurt by the vanillas. There is no shame in being kinky or vanilla. The thing is that we need to stop shaming each other or talking bad about each other. Just because you don't understand or agree with someone doesn't give you the right to be mean, judgmental, or rude.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Filthy