Jonathan Peykar
Bio
I write about relationships, life lessons, and self-improvement.
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Stories (18/0)
How a Shy Guy Removed His Fear Of Rejection Almost Completely
I still remember my first approaches at parties. I was about 20, rolling around in bars trying to make conversations. I tried the Mystery Method and ten other "methods" that didn't work. Every time before the approach, I feared.
By Jonathan Peykarabout a year ago in Humans
How To Build a Life Free Of Regrets
My high school buddy and I went hiking with his kids the other day. I haven’t seen him for years, and we reflected on our last decade. He said, “I regre — , I mean, I don’t regret anything, but there’s stuff I still want to do.”
By Jonathan Peykarabout a year ago in Motivation
What Everybody Wants (and How To Give It To Them)
I learned a lot about people in the last ten years. It wasn't intentional, just the way things happened. Girls rejected me left and right, so I had to learn how to date better. Prospects rejected my business offers and I couldn't sell. So I had to study my clients and the fundamentals of selling. And, of course, my advertising career shaped how I view people.
By Jonathan Peykarabout a year ago in Humans
"Productivity" Is Overrated And Might Hurt Your Success, Here's Why
People these days like being "productive". Ain't they. It's almost turned into a value of its own I think- like freedom, justice or respect. PRODUCTIVIY! Or in other words, "How do I squeeze every moment of life to become exhausted and depressed".
By Jonathan Peykarabout a year ago in Journal
Should You Date a Girl With Daddy Issues, or Leave Her Weeping? (Unapologetic Answer)
First, I have nothing against women with "daddy issues." We all have issues. Different kinds of issues. Depression, sadness, self-esteem issues, you know the drill. For over a year, I dated a girl who had problems with her father. Then dated more girls with similar problems and backgrounds and realizd, "You know what, that daddy issues thing isn't some psychological bullshit."
By Jonathan Peykarabout a year ago in Humans
I’ve Been Picking Up Girls In Bars For 10 Years. Here’s what Separates Men Who Get Women From Those Who Get Rejected
I’ll start with a hint: Truly successful men have a life. They don’t go out to bars four times a week and then jerk off at the gym for the rest.
By Jonathan Peykar2 years ago in Motivation
7 Principles For Building A Life You’re Damn Proud Of
In three months my life turned upside down. I was a wreck. The loss of my father was too sudden and traumatic. I believed “it’ll pass”. All I needed was time. I’ll go out with friends, travel, start university, and get over it.
By Jonathan Peykar2 years ago in Motivation
Rejection 101: How Men Can Handle Rejection, Get The Girl Of Their Dreams, And Become Extremely Confident
Getting rejected by a girl can feel vicious for a man. Girls ignore you when you approach them, ghost you after dates, tell you they aren't interested, etc. I've been through all of that shit in the past 10 years.
By Jonathan Peykar2 years ago in Humans