Dr.Lan

Joined September 2023

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As a psychologist, psychological counselor writer, and master of clinical psychology, I am committed to using psychology to understand various classic phenomena of individuals, families, and society.

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If you frequently make this statement, your spouse and kids may distance themselves from you.
We often encounter this situation in life: You try to persuade someone with all your heart, and what you say couldn't be more correct, but he doesn't listen.
By Dr.Lan2 days ago in Motivation
People who live a comfortable life have an "anti-internal friction" physique.
You may have noticed two completely different types of people in our lives. One is to think more and do less. When chatting with this kind of person, you will find that they have fascinating conversations, have a lot of things they want to do, and are eager to express themselves.
By Dr.Lan2 days ago in Motivation
The happiest way to live is to be true to your feelings.
In my role as a psychological counselor, People often ask me: Dr. Lan, life is so complicated. Can you teach me a trick that can cure my anxiety?
By Dr.Lan3 days ago in Humans
Expressing anger is often seen as the cheapest way to test a relationship.
01. I have been on the run my entire life, fighting a losing battle since childhood. 02. People constantly forcing themselves to change tend to stay where they are.
By Dr.Lan5 days ago in Motivation
The dynamic between spouses, friends, and coworkers can sometimes conceal forms of subtle aggression.
I had dinner with a best friend a few days ago. We talked about an extraordinary thing: There are always some specific people in our lives. As long as we stay with them, we unconsciously feel we can't do anything well.
By Dr.Lan5 days ago in Humans
Throughout your life, no one will love you solely for your achievements.
After staying in the psychology industry for a long time, the more books I read and stories I heard, the more I discovered The original sin of many inner problems is a kind of strict self-requirement that is almost paranoid:
By Dr.Lan6 days ago in Humans
How to move in and out quickly in life roles and become the master of time
Why do I become more and more tired as the days go by? When I get home from work, I want to lie down. I don’t want to do housework, I don’t want to take care of my children, and I feel tired even talking to my partner;
By Dr.Lan6 days ago in Psyche

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If you frequently make this statement, your spouse and kids may distance themselves from you.

People who live a comfortable life have an "anti-internal friction" physique.

The happiest way to live is to be true to your feelings.

Expressing anger is often seen as the cheapest way to test a relationship.

The dynamic between spouses, friends, and coworkers can sometimes conceal forms of subtle aggression.

Throughout your life, no one will love you solely for your achievements.

How to move in and out quickly in life roles and become the master of time

Stories (7/0)