Twenty to thirty, drinking countless cans of chicken soup and still not really mature

When you are young, you need to struggle, and when you are young, you have the capital to try and make mistakes. After ten years of constant struggle and tempering, I have finally grown from an ignorant, sensitive and vulnerable teenager to an ignorant, sensitive and vulnerable youth. Sounds bad, doesn't it? Yes. But there is a little yearning in my heart for the blow from the waves of life, but it is as flat as me, and the sea of ​​life has only swayed a little.

Someone did a little calculation, and in fact, there are really not ten years between the age of 20 and 30, and the shortest may be three years. Why is it said that there are only three years? In their early twenties, most people are still studying on college campuses, usually in classrooms, canteens, and dormitories. There is no difference between three years and one year, because the children are similar.

I started working the second year after graduation, wanting to tell the world that I can support myself by myself. There is no specific goal, just like me for three or four years, I have been doing grassroots work for three or four years, and I didn’t get what I wanted, and I didn’t have any major promotions. life can only be regarded as a year.

After working for a few years, family members are urging marriage, various introductions and blind dates. If you meet someone you like and enter the palace of marriage, you will start the third year of your life. If you continue to work for your family, it is still a love post. Dedicated, but the income is straight and there are few ups and downs. Looking at it, there is no big change. Suddenly, it is thirty.

If you add postgraduate entrance exams and postgraduate entrance exams, the study time will be extended again, and the time of work, marriage and love will be shortened accordingly. That's three years for most people.

At thirty, most people are stuck in entry-level positions. The existing jobs cannot be promoted, and they cannot afford the time cost of changing careers, let alone go to school. My parents became ill; I had limited income and no savings. The greater pain is to see that people who have no background but are hardworking and smart have achieved small achievements, and those with background have begun to live a noble life.

I looked around and found a lot of people who didn't get along very well. I don't know if they disdain worldly success because they see it thoroughly, or they have to take it openly because they don't succeed. They believe that some people they see have worked hard all their lives, and they have been squeezed from the fourth-rate to the third-rate in society.

Once every three days, I made up my mind to live an active life and change myself, as if I could be reborn tomorrow and say goodbye to myself completely. In fact, pretend to be positive and optimistic, pretend to be calm and rational, and pretend to be interested in what you are doing. What are you pretending to be?

After finding that they are unlikely to achieve career success, some people changed their life goals to "experience and do what you want to do", while others changed it to "work hard so that you don't regret it."

What kind of person do you want to be, others say it doesn't matter, and sometimes you don't say it yourself. At the age of 30, you still have responsibilities and many fetters, but you don't have to worry about it. It is never age that makes people mature, but is experience. You should know to choose a life and be content with it. It's not that life chooses you, it's that you choose life.

All the unease in the heart comes from dissatisfaction with the current moment. Change is not impossible, on the contrary, it can make people grow and know themselves clearly.