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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.
The Quantum Akasha: Bridging Science and Spirituality
For centuries, spiritual traditions have described an unseen realm containing the memory of existence—a place beyond ordinary time and space where the experiences of consciousness are somehow preserved.
By Brenda Fluhartyabout 14 hours ago in Psyche
Discovering Your Soul Contracts Through the Akashic Records
Have you ever had the feeling that certain experiences in your life keep circling back around? Maybe you find yourself in the same type of relationship again and again, even though the people involved are different. Perhaps certain emotional struggles seem to follow you no matter how much you try to move beyond them. Or maybe you have met someone for the first time and immediately felt an inexplicable sense of recognition—as though some part of you already knew them.
By Brenda Fluhartyabout 14 hours ago in Psyche
The Psychology Behind Your Searches Is Interesting
Why are we always seeking something more? It's not as superficial as you think! Whether you’re opening a new browser tab, changing your career trajectory, wasting hours scrolling social media, or aimlessly wandering down a news street, people are forever in pursuit. We spend a large portion of our lives chasing the next milestone, relationship, or status-symbol possession.
By Jason Morton2 days ago in Psyche
When Sharing Stops Being Connection
It begins generously. Someone across the table tells you something that clearly costs them to say — a diagnosis, perhaps, or the real reason a marriage ended. You lean in. Then comes another thing, and another. The father who left. The manager quietly edging them out. The sister who stopped calling. Twenty minutes pass, then forty. By the time the bill arrives, you know more about this person's inner life than about some of your oldest friends. They have asked you almost nothing.
By Khali Sollis3 days ago in Psyche
What Most People Are Unwilling To Do That Causes Them To Regret Their Lives
Written by a human, for humans, always. Something that I have noticed about most people... Is that many people are willing to do many things to have success in their lives...
By H.E. Dr. Cody Dakota Wooten, COIE, DFM, DHM5 days ago in Psyche
The incel problem in the autism community
The incel problem among the autism community is a well-documented problem among autism spaces. As someone who moderated r/asperegrs for over 3 years, I can tell you that I myself have had to remove numerous posts over that stretch that included anywhere from extremely depressing too downright vile. Before you all get into a tizzy about this, there is something worth mentioning, autistic men have a much higher rate of remaining virgins for a lot longer than a lot of their peers. This may have something to do with our tendency to over analyze body language of people we are attracted to, or the fact we may behave in a way that accidentally makes people uncomfortable It also. Could be the fact that a lot of us simply are dog shit when picking up on the fact that a woman might actually want to sleep with you. I know I’ve had all of those problems. However, what separates a simple virgin from an incel in my opinion isn’t even the fact that someone is trying to fuck but still can’t seem to find a willing participant is the ideology. In order to be an incel I think it requires you to think you are entitled to a women’s affections simply because you believe yourself a nice guy or think woman should have pity sex with you because you’re upset that you aren’t getting laid. That’s the difference. As far as I’m come concerned without the entitlement, you’re just a guy who is having a hard time. Especially if even despite your genuine best efforts to get laid, it just doesn’t happen. I do have a couple of solutions that might help autistic men get better at talking to woman. Then I have a couple things that could help society more understand autistic behaviors a little better. First thing’s first, autistic individuals need to start by getting professional help before they actually end up going down the rabbit hole spiral. This is probably the most important, and it must happen before, not after they are exposed to red pill bullshit. After that happens, the chances of getting them help is very low unless they are forced to finally confront the fact that now nobody wants to hang around someone, they consider a massive asshol. Also, our tendency to often be easier to radicalize makes this much more difficult once this toxic ideology takes over. This is the number one thing, can’t stress it enough, if you know an autistic individual who is struggling in this department, you need to get them help. The next thing I would recommend is a relationship coach. Sounds crazy, right? Think about it though. Someone’s whose job it is to help your flaws and make you more someone might want to spend time with, this goes back to the whole getting professional help, but getting help from people who are supposed to know what they are talking about, because that’s what they’re paid for is probably the most intelligent route if you are results oriented as I am, and I know a lot of autistic people often are. The last point I’ll make has nothing to do with that though, and it relies entirely on the individual, that without I think the rest is rendered completely pointless, you have to learn through trial and failure how to maintain relationships that are completely no romantic first. Most if not all lovers were friends first, and this might not be always true but it’s true enough that there have been many studies on it the only reason this may not be the case is people who met each other on tinder or some shit, which is note thing I want to bring up, do NOT go on dating apps unless you fill you have no choice. They suck, you probably won’t get anyone who isn’t a bot, hell one time I got a match and the person immiadely actually mocked me for having autism and then when I called it out she unmatched. Just stay off tinder, there really isn’t enough sane people on there to make it worth it. Back on topic, I would focus on improving yourself, maybe pick up a hobby, if you’re reading this, maybe you like books and could join a book club or some shit. Being content with being single during this time is super important to. You’ll learn more about yourself the longer you spend alone with only your thoughts. Now for those who would like to help your autistic friends, I’ll spill the secret on how to help us the most. Are you focused? Here it is. Actually, listen when an autistic person says what they need, don’t try to claim you know more about them then they do, you don’t and don’t try to make them think what they need is dumb, unless it is actually dumb, in which case, be a friend and tell them as blunt as they probably tell you when you do or say something dumb. The thing we all have to understand is, this isn’t a problem that can be solved overnight, nor do I think you need to stately follow my advice, hell I don’t know you, I’m just an autistic person n giving my two cents on a problem that affects people like me and I wanted to try to suggest a way to solve it. If anyone has any better ideas let me know down below, just try not to red pill my comment section, I’ve read enough of that for one life time.
By Dylan Faughn7 days ago in Psyche
