Where do the biggest problems in your life come from?

Some people say that the biggest confusion in life comes from not being able to let go. I don’t think it’s entirely true, because letting go of what you don’t have is not letting go. It’s easier said than done if you can let go of what you have. There are also people who have summed up the top ten confusions in life. They have always said a lot, and finally said that no matter what kind of emotional state or psychological problem it is, it will gradually change or accept with the soundness of the personality. In this process, we need to constantly strive to accept the reality. The way it should be and ourselves. After reading it, my head became more and more dizzy, and I couldn't make up my mind.

The problems that plague everyone are different, and everyone's problems are not the same. Aside from how to solve the problems, I just want to know what causes these problems.

I have thought about this question repeatedly, and I feel that a large part of the trouble is because I don't know myself enough. Because people don't know themselves well enough, they cause a lot of misunderstandings about the outside world. Because people do not have a target direction, they often get lost easily.

Thinking about the love of dreaming when I was a child, I have a dream of my own in my heart. But if there is no parent to guide them to divide this big goal into many easy-to-reach small goals according to their own abilities and stages, to help children turn their dreams into goals. One day these dreams will all disappear like soap bubbles.

When we muster up the courage to talk to adults about our life goals, some parents often think that it is empty and meaningless. In fact, the dream sketched in the child's mind is a very specific problem. As long as the child has a goal, whether it is a big goal or a small goal, as long as the child thinks that this goal is the ideal in his heart. With appropriate help from adults, children will find fun in the process of achieving each small goal, and then get closer to the big goal, and finally get closer to the dream.

Once a correct life goal is established for a child, in addition to the meaning given by the goal itself, the biggest role it plays is: if the child has a life goal, he can enhance his immunity and resist the interference of the surrounding bad environment and bad people. temptation, and can effectively prevent the occurrence of bad habits in children, so that children can form independent and assertive character qualities.

If you are a parent, you should help your child set goals in life (of course, we can't set goals far beyond the child's ability, and we can get closer and closer to our dreams if we move forward slowly.), and the sooner the better! Of course, we can't set goals that are far beyond our children's ability, and we can only get closer to our dreams by moving forward slowly.

If you're a child, but you already have the judgment, know that it takes effort to succeed. On the road of chasing your dreams, you will inevitably encounter stumbling blocks, so you must have a strong heart. Together, we realize that life is not abandoned or given up, and we must persevere.

We can ask ourselves, where does the biggest confusion in your life come from? Not the society, not the school, not the unit, not the family of origin, but your heart. Some people especially believe in the theory of family of origin. The family of origin is not the whole of life but affects all of life. But people can't choose their own origin, but they can choose which way of life to take.

If life is sailing in the dark, then your dreams are one beacon after another. It is the hardest for people to understand, and confusion always goes with you. In a sentence that countless people have said: don't forget the original intention.