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The happiness of eating together

When we miss our parents, we often get up because of the rice, and the smell of the rice can even waft across thousands of mountains and rivers.

By Horn SmithPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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The happiness of eating together
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Someone asked: How to express love? Another replied: "Want to eat a lot of meals with that person." Some people laughed and said he was really a foodie. right! More than half of modern young people are foodies, which is not ashamed to admit. When we miss our parents, we often get up because of the rice, and the smell of the rice can even waft across thousands of mountains and rivers. A happy family must be full of fireworks, with sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, and salty flavors!

A pair of lovers and a family experience the happiness of eating together, which is the personal feeling of everyone, and the happiness and satisfaction of that moment fills the whole body.

The person who is afraid that you will be hungry, that you will not be full, that you will not eat well must have been the person who loves you the most in this life.

Once upon a time, because we were busy with business or entertainment, we gave up the opportunity to eat with our lover. As everyone knows, what we gave up was the most primitive accumulation of happiness. Will gradually stay away, so I hope every couple can cherish this hard-won fate and cherish the happiness of eating together.

When a couple goes from youth to adulthood, everything seems to be different, but after a long period of accumulation, they will inadvertently reveal a certain touching warmth. Give the other person the dishes that you think are delicious, and take the initiative to take care of the other person's eating habits. I think it is in this ordinary diet that passion is gradually transformed into warmth, and love is gradually transformed into family affection, and this is the essence of a happy marriage, which is always hidden between the seemingly ordinary bits and pieces.

In this world, there are not so many life-or-death loves. Most people's married life will be quarrels, fights and cold wars, but if you can cook, eat or wash dishes together after these events, then you marriage will not die. Because it is in these ordinary days, the rising heat and warmth is the happiest life.

Love is not a noun, but a verb. The man who loves you may not be good at expressing, but he will definitely make you an inseparable part of his life, a habit as essential as three meals a day.

A netizen told a story about his father. Before that he didn't feel his father's love for his mother.

His father could not cook, but was good at frying pork liver. The other dishes were unpalatable, and there was only one stir-fried pork liver, but it was done quite like a chef. At first he thought it was his father's own preference. Until one day, he accidentally saw someone on the Internet saying that eating pig liver is good for people with anemia.

It dawned on him that his mother had iron-deficiency anemia. This bowl of fried pork liver was specially learned by his father.

The moment I heard this story, I finally understood what love is. People who love you will keep your health in mind, and will be willing to have their own specialties for you. Chai, rice, oil, and salt turned out to be the most romantic fireworks in the world.

My mom doesn't like spicy food, but my dad loves it. Even so, she still grows chili peppers every year. The bright red chili peppers turn into delicious food from my mother's hands and enter my father's stomach. I said you don't like it, why do it? Mom replied: Your dad likes to eat it!

The person who loves you will accommodate your hobbies with practical actions. Although I don't love it, I know you love it. The two of you will accompany each other, accommodate each other, and spend the rest of your life.

There is a kind of love that, after seeing all the luxury in the world, is still willing to cook a steaming meal for you. This is why most people still choose marriage.

Life kills love. When the passion for love fades away, life will reveal its trivial and boring original face. So we rely on eating to connect our feelings. A small dining table is the warmest and happiest appearance of a home. The family at the table can gobble it or savor it slowly. A lot of joy can be shared, and a lot of trouble can be shared. You can talk a lot, or you can gossip casually.

This is a natural companionship, and it is also the most exciting scene in ordinary life: I feel at ease when you sit across from me.

After eating so many meals with you, I finally understand the happiness of eating.

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