What makes adults feel insecure

This topic is very broad!

The sense of security is manifested in all aspects. It should be said that everyone lacks a 100% sense of security. No matter what social class people are in, they feel that they are not safe enough.

If the sense of security of adults is simply attributed to "money", it can only make adults like donkeys pulling a mill, running for money all day long, busy under their feet, in fact turning around in circles, anxiety in their hearts, and farther from happiness.

If asked: What made you feel insecure? In addition to the money that is always insufficient, there must be something else... Another question, what do you think will give you a sense of security? Money can solve many problems, are you sure that money can be safe? Look at the lucky winners, a lot of them are broken, lonely, and some end up destitute. It can be seen that a person's ability is the control valve of how much money he has. If this valve is exceeded, a person cannot control a lot of money beyond his ability.

Of course, I do not advocate Buddhism at a young age. Effort is the value of life. Animals in nature can continue to learn, evolve, and even change themselves in order to survive. What about people? Through learning, people's ability will become stronger, and the ability to control money will also improve.

The thinking of adults will gradually solidify, and they will become more and more sure to deal with the rapidly developing society. Society is ever-changing, but the basic element is people. It is not difficult to understand people's thoughts and take away the money in their pockets. Insight into human nature should be a compulsory course for adults. And adults are more experienced in this regard.

Whether it is to make money or raise a salary, adults should change their self-study first. The lack of a sense of security is a crisis reminder and an opportunity for personal growth. Seize the opportunity to self-cultivation to give yourself security.

From a spiritual point of view, a sense of security is a feeling, a psychology, and a calm and reassuring attitude towards life. In your spare time, you can watch the clouds and clouds, and you can ride the wind and waves in the face of the wind and waves of fate. The real sense of security can only come from one place, and that is the human heart.

People with a sense of security do not necessarily occupy the most stable resources in society, but they must occupy such a talent - "I don't care about what I have, I don't care about what I don't have, I am not afraid of losing, and I don't pursue the strong. I feel that everything is Your own, it doesn't matter if nothing is left. Do what you can and don't be afraid of losing."

Adults who have lost their sense of spiritual security should do things with the attitude of "doing their best and obeying the destiny", and only by working hard can they have no regrets. I have nothing against persistence, never give up on my dreams, and keep my heart young forever. Never listen to young people talking about "greasy middle-aged people". The deer who has never stepped on the trap has not yet experienced that kind of "painful growth" experience. Those labels in society, as long as you don't accept them, have nothing to do with you. Some Ah Q, but he bears a heavy burden and his spirit does not collapse, is a victory.

In terms of emotional life, marriage or love can also easily make people feel insecure. Women are always more insecure than men. If one party entrusts his sense of security to the other, that person can be at ease, comfortable, dependable, and trustworthy. Once these are lost, the world will collapse for this person. I firmly believe that even in an intimate relationship, independence must be maintained, not only financially, but also spiritually.

Each of us must learn to take responsibility for our own lives. You're an adult, and it's never about being attached to someone or a marriage, but about growing and fulfilling yourself. Material wealth is the guarantee of a decent life, and spiritual wealth is the secret to maintaining one's self.

Although sometimes living together and relying on each other, men and women complement each other's advantages, but if you are accustomed to relying on others, or even lose the ability to be independent, and take each other's efforts for granted, this cannot be called a healthy relationship for adults.

Like a person to love him out of his own will, not what he can bring me. Solve your own affairs with respect for others.

What is one's ultimate sense of security? It's about having the right to choose your own life.

People who lose their sense of security are mostly insecure and lose their goals. To break through these first, you need to believe that you are powerful. Taking action is the way to eliminate anxiety. In the process of doing it, you constantly correct your thoughts and make new plans. As for whether it is safe or not, you have long since forgotten. move forward. As an adult, you have the ability to rewrite a different story, and at the same time, you cannot escape the responsibility for the misfortunes encountered in adulthood.

There is no 100% sense of security in the social jungle, and we will face it eventually.