How to Seduce Anyone using simple Psychology.

Normally, you tend to be more locked in your head and more engaged in your own thoughts and ideas. It plays the same grooves repeatedly, much like an old record did in its dying days. Simply flip the conversation around and convince yourself that the other person is more interesting than you. Their way of living, their ideas, etc. It's comparable to traveling to Tahiti or some other place and experiencing a different culture. They have first-hand knowledge that you don't. Their world is different from yours. They remind you of a fictional character, which is fascinating.

I wish to comprehend it. If someone suddenly did that to you at work or during a male/female flirtation, it would be unpleasant. You would sense it, exclaim, "Wow! that's rare," and you would feel at least a little enticed by the attention. The major goal is to elicit a discussion regarding their early years. Don't be like; "tell me about your father." Just ask them about their early years without seeming overly interested or making it obvious that you are trying to pry information out of them. Everyone has this sort of emotional connection to their early memories, their environment, their parents, their family, and their first friends. There are numerous feelings surrounding it, that are very potent. Also uncontrollable, I suppose.

So, ask a really ambiguous inquiry about someone's childhood, follow up with a few leading inquiries, and then let them speak. But, and that's a big gut(chuckles), if you keep asking them questions, it makes you seem like a lawyer. You should be allowing them to talk even if they may be doing 70% of the talking without even realizing it. While letting them be the center of attention, you manage to pique their interest and compel them to talk and divulge details of their childhood. Occasionally, you may even pose a question, at which point you might briefly discuss an experience from your own life to sort of demonstrate, "Oh yeah! I had that. I had something very kind of similar."

Emulating people is an extremely effective, if rather manipulative, tactic. They begin telling you amazing things about their upbringing, and you exclaim, "Yeah! I experienced something extremely similar”, and you have probably also. Yes, that is a highly effective method to interact with people, but you have to be tactful. Finding what makes someone's face light up and makes them thrilled is a skill in itself when trying to persuade them to open up and communicate. You know, if you bring up a topic and you notice that they become tense or laugh a lot, they are highly interested. Simply add that to your index there and go back to it. You'll see that you've struck a nerve by bringing up a topic that either makes them excited or fearful, or whatever. There is a really potent force at work there. It's similar to the Oedipus play from classical Greece. He murdered his father before marrying his mother. Crazy, yes, and he doesn't recognize it until he's in his late 30s. He spent his whole reign as king of Thebes before being suddenly made aware of it by a number of events. The feeling was "Oh my god! Really? I did all of that. Is this how my life is like?” and he becomes so overcome that he blinds himself by cutting out his own eyes to show how blind he was.

Wow! Therefore, the Greeks in that play are implying that we are all somewhat blind. The moment you feel enlightened about realizing some of these patterns in your upbringing are actually a beautiful moment because fate sort of pulls us around and we're not even conscious of it. It's incredibly unpleasant, but it's also very powerful, and sometimes during a conversation, someone will say something a little bit upsetting or harsh before saying, "Oh, never mind. I'm sorry; that wasn't what I meant to say. Don't pay attention to what I just said; forget it”. Well, it stands to reason that you won't forget about it. The seed will germinate in your thoughts and grow there.

Insinuation is exactly the kind of thing that it is. It's never a direct statement. Your body language may indicate this, as well as the fact that although you may not seem interested in someone based on your words, your appearance and gaze may suggest otherwise. Your words are somewhat bland and blank, yet your face betrays a longing. It is the practice of sowing ideas into someone's head. When someone meets you and upon returning home wonders, "What did he say there, what did he mean, what was that gesture?" If you can make people remember you after they leave. You're halfway to seducing them since your soul has entered their head and they are now reflecting on what you said and did. As you are aware, everyone has a natural aversion to seduction. talking too much, preaching, passing judgment on others, treating them harshly, being hurried, and not listening. Your social connections will be greatly enhanced if you can merely get rid of these anti-seductive traits.