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Want Your Ex Back? DON'T DO THIS!

Learning from Mistakes: The Top 5 Things You Should Avoid Doing if You Want to Get Your Ex Back.

By Timeless Siren SecretsPublished 12 months ago 4 min read
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Letting go of someone you had a unique connection with can feel like ripping out a piece of your heart. You know deep down that if they would just open up and give it another chance, the possibilities could be endless.

Together, you could build a life full of love and adventure. It's natural to want to persuade them to give it another try, to show them that walking away would be a mistake. But, what if your gut is leading you down the wrong path?

The truth is, trying to logically convince your ex to come back rarely works. Sure, it may seem like the right thing to do, but emotions always win out over reason.

We like to think of ourselves as logical beings, but when it comes to matters of the heart, we're ruled by our emotions. That's why triggering their emotions is the key to getting them back.

It may seem daunting, but emotional appeal is your greatest weapon. You need to connect with them on a deeper level, to remind them of the love and passion you once shared.

It's not about manipulating them or playing games; it's about being authentic and vulnerable. When you tap into their emotions, you create a bridge that can bring you back together.

So, if you're struggling to get your ex to talk to you again, forget about logic and embrace your emotions. Take a chance and show them that you're willing to put it all on the line for love. Because, at the end of the day, that's all that truly matters.

There is a distinction between convincing your ex and triggering the right type of emotions.

Here are 5 things you should NOT do if you want your Ex back.

#1 Don’t argue that he owes you an explanation since you know he still has feelings for you

Breakups can be tough, especially when you still have feelings for your ex-partner. But arguing with your ex that he owes you an explanation for the breakup is not the solution.

It's important to respect his boundaries and give him space to process his emotions. Pressuring him to explain his feelings might backfire and push him further away.

Instead, give him time and space to process his emotions, and when he's ready to talk, listen to what he has to say.

#2 Don’t tell him the relationship was going just fine and then try to get him to own his share of the blame for why things began to fall apart

It's easy to blame your ex for the relationship's downfall, but it won't help you get back together. Acknowledging your own role in the breakup and taking responsibility for your actions is a much more effective approach.

By showing your ex that you're willing to work on yourself and the relationship, you'll increase your chances of reconciliation.

#3 Don’t imply he owes you something after all you’ve been through together

Just because you and your ex have been through a lot together doesn't mean he owes you anything. Expecting something in return for past experiences is not healthy or sustainable.

Instead, focus on building a new, healthy relationship that is not based on past obligations. You'll increase your chances of getting back together if you approach the relationship with a fresh start and a positive attitude.

#4 Don’t tell him real relationships take work and he needs to grow up

Criticizing your ex's maturity level or work ethic won't help you get back together. In fact, this can completely destroy your chances of getting back together because men put respect above love.

The respect principle is main element that can completely turn a relationship around. Thousands of women have used this respect principle to bring out the best in their man.

#5 Don’t try to prove you shared something special by forcing him to acknowledge specific examples from your past

Reminding your ex of the good times you shared can be helpful, but forcing him to acknowledge specific examples from the past is not a good idea. Your ex needs to remember and acknowledge these moments on his own.

Forcing him to acknowledge the past can feel like pressure, which may push him further away. Instead, focus on creating new positive experiences and memories that will bring you closer together.

Instead, let his emotions do the work for you!

If you're trying to win your ex back, it can be a tough and emotional journey. Every situation is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. However, understanding the difference between convincing your ex to come back and evoking the right feelings in him can make all the difference.

This video provides secret steps that you can take to evoke the right emotions and increase your chances of getting your ex back. So, don't lose hope - with the right approach and guidance, it's possible to win back the man you love.

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