dating
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My relationship advice
I as a 19 year old want to talk about relationships in general. I've been through countless toxic relationships and I stayed for a long time because it was what I was use too. I started dating at a young age and the first guy I was with was a sweetheart. When he left my life I got into a really toxic relationship that I was in for 2 and a half years and lemme tell you. You don't need to feel like you have to stay because you love him. Never stay in a relationship that is hurting you. I can promise you there are better men in the world. I've had people ask me "What if i'm too scared to leave because he'll hurt me" My best words for that is tell someone. I was harassed by my second ex for months because I wouldn't speak up. I promise you even if it's just telling a teacher you trust or a boss at work, let someone know. Later on in my life I was in a relationship for a year with a guy that wanted me to change who I was. Our personalities were completely opposite, he was chill and didn't really do much. I on the other hand, I'm very active and a lot of people would say I'm hyper. I like to make jokes and I say what I think all the time. He would always call me mean and wanted me to change to be more like him. Ladies if you're with a guy that wants you to change, walk away because he ain't worth it. You are allowed to wear what you want, do what you want, say want you want, and be however you want. My last set of advice come from my last relationship I was in for a year. This was a guy that made me feel like I wasn't enough. He's always call me clingy and annoying. Often times he'd ignore me to hang with his boys even when they'd tell him to come hang with me. When I was insecure he'd tell me that was unattractive instead of building up my confidence. A wise friend of mine always told me I needed to find a guy that would do things he loved with me instead of ignoring me for what he loved. I wanted to relay the message to any ladies willing to read this. If he ignores you find someone that won't and never ever let a guy tell you you need to be more confident instead of complimenting you when you don't feel confident. Stay beautiful and remember you're a boss in yourself don't let men make you feel any different!
By Khora Peck7 years ago in Humans
Love
What is really Love? Well I never really understand what Love was!! The only Love I thought was from Romantic Comedies, a fantasy, a fairy tale. I grew up watching Grease, Sweet Home Alabama, My Best Friends Wedding, and so many more!! I was wanting a relationship like that and that is what I was trying to look for, buuut no that is not what I found. My first relationship was may a practice run, really was a good one. He lived in a different town and I another, but I was the one that was really trying to make an effort for it. I found out that it wasn’t going to work out because I had a pregnancy scare and he pretty much told me I can’t do this!!! Well that really made me feel horrible about myself because (“THANK GOD, I wasn’t pregnant) if I was I would of been having to be a parent by myself. I mean how would I be able to handle it!! This actually started me to party a little bit, it wasn’t as extreme like some would but I would want to do a little drinking!!
By Whitney Riddle7 years ago in Humans
Kidnapped in Connecticut
Although this sounds like a catchy Lifetime Original Movie title it is in fact a cautionary tale. Nay, a warning that one should never go on a camping trip with a tinder date. Now I know a great deal of you reading this are asking yourselves “why does this need to be said?” My response to you, where were you during the summer of ‘17?
By Reptile Dysfunction 7 years ago in Humans
Beginnings
How do you begin again, when you don’t have no more drive, faith, or hope? Well I will tell you it is very hard!! I was in a dark cold place, heart was broken, I felt like I was worthless, beaten down to nothing emotionally and felt like no one would ever love me. How do you find yourself, how do you feel better about yourself, how do you find love!! Well in 2011, I thought maybe the guy I was with would wake up and see me, but no, no he saw someone else and I was finally after four years of not knowing who I was to him, tired of being a doormat, tired of being the designated driver at 2:30 in the morning, and tired of having my emotions played with!!! So I made the decision to move on and find true love. And man I found it, it took me a few tries but I found the man that put my heart back together, and made me into a strong woman!! He started my journey to find myself. Now I know what your saying I don’t need a man to help find myself and your right you don’t but for me, I needed this man to help me find myself. I will make this my series of how I was able to find myself!
By Whitney Riddle7 years ago in Humans
The Secret
”You can’t tell her what’s going on she would kill both of us.” I looked in his eyes with anger. I thought to myself you should have thought about that before you started coming on to me the way you were. Joyce his fiancee and I were not the best of friends and honestly I didn’t give a fuck about her feelings. We owned a restaurant together and all we had was a business relationship. She was cool and all and I loved her drive hints why I agreed to do business with her. I knew Sean longer we were best friends for years and secretly in love with each other. I mean everybody knew this but all that went out the window once he met Joyce. He introduced us and we hit it off from there and built a business relationship. Joyce is an amazing cook and went to the best culinary school in New York. So we got into business and now I’m laid up with her soon to be husband. ”So let me get this straight you are actually going to marry Joyce? Then why continue to see me? Huh Sean?” He looked at me confused then had the nerve to let these dumb ass words come out his mouth. ”Jade Im in love with Joyce and I…” before I let him finish I finished the sentence for him ”You love me right?!?.” I pushed him then went to run my bath. He continued to lay in my king size bed and I was wondering why the fuck he was still here. I put my silk robe on then went back to my bedroom. He looked me up and down with a smirk on his face as if he was about to get some ass. I smiled then said ” Yeah…. so you can see your way out and don’t forget to leave my spare key by the door.” He looked confused then started grabbing his shit. He mumbled things under his breath but didn’t dare let me hear it. I waited at the top of my stairs to hear my door lock and made sure he left those keys. I turned on my music then poured a glass of wine. My bath was ready so I took off my robe then got in. It was just what I needed. My phone started to ring but I let my answering machine pick up.
By [email protected]7 years ago in Humans
sublime mysticism
The night was like any other. This year, at this time amidst all the chaos the Corona Virus has created in April and if I'm specific.. it was the 18th 04 2020 and somehow believe we have a reason to remember the easter everywhere! There was a malicious, vicious and velocity of violent health outbreaks going around. And I didn't want to talk about it but I may.
By Just george7 years ago in Humans
The online/texting sugar baby, mama and daddy
I see people wanting this type of arrangement all the time. I want to fill this article with information and advice. I will address all of the concerns as well. I will be mainly using the term sugar daddies but this applies to mamas too.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Humans
