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The online/texting sugar baby, mama and daddy

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By Lena BaileyPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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I see people wanting this type of arrangement all the time. I want to fill this article with information and advice. I will address all of the concerns as well. I will be mainly using the term sugar daddies but this applies to mamas too.

What are online/text sugar arrangements? Traditionally it's a sugar arrangement that are long distance but the people in the arrangement text and use other chat forums (like skype) until they can meet. But some sugar babies may do other stuff like cam girl type stuff or sending nudes and texts. Now being a cam girl or sending nudes is not being a sugar baby. Unless it's a part time online/ text thing or part of a long distance I don't advise people to enter into this kind of arrangement.

So why would someone want an online or text based arrangements? The first reason is because the babies are scared to meet the daddies. I think they have heard so many horror stories and it freaked them out. My advice is to follow the online dating rules. I will post about the rules of online dating later. The basics are to meet in public and wait until date 2 or 3 to go back to your date's place. Also tell someone where you are going when you go on your sugar dates. If you follow these rules and follow your gut instincts you can be safe.

Other girls just don't see the point in meeting sugar daddies. Real sugar daddies will get tired of just texting or online stuff. The sugar daddies who aren't against this type of sugar arrangement either are scammers or are taking advantage of sugar babies that will offer this. Real sugar babies know a sugar arrangement is basically a dating relationship you get paid for.

Online/text sugar arrangements could be great for long distance sugar arrangements. It gives you two a chance to talk while you can't be together. This is the only reason why I would support the online arrangement. In this case it's not fully online. Also during the Covid-19 pandemic in 2020 the online arrangement may be perfect. There's also people who are long distance or going through the pandemic who will never meet.

So the last reason this type of arrangement exist is because people just assume that this is how sugar works. It's not how it works unless you are long distance and you are actually going to meet. Daddies will take advantage of this lack of knowledge and the supply of online sugar babies. These daddies may even start to ask for things that aren't really sugar (nudes and cam session).

If you are going to do this type of arrangement make sure it will lead to you two meeting at some point. It can be a part time texting or online arrangement or part of a long distance arrangement. Also make sure to set up boundaries like no being nude on camera. Babies also need to make sure you are getting paid. Don't ever give out your bank info or buy any kind of cards for him to use. If he wants to send good faith money then let him but don't demand it from him.

So let's look at the downfalls of the arrangements. It is more likely that you will get scammed. Think about it what's stopping him from not paying you? What's to stop him from posting your videos or nudes online without permission? They can post nudes and videos without permission, it's called revenge porn. Revenge porn could be hard to take to court, not impossible just hard. Also a daddy may ask you some cards or your bank info which again you shouldn't do because they can scam you through that. He could take all your money or info from the bank info you give him. With the cards he could spend it or take the money. He could also ghost you and stop paying you at anytime. He could also be catfishing you or lying about who he is.

I think the risks out weigh the benefits but I know people will do whatever they want. I hope you this makes sense and helps you. I want to help all of the sugar babies have a good experience. Please if you are going to send me hate or tell me I'm wrong please don't. I know what I'm talking about.

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Lena Bailey

Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime

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