No chance to be a couple of two people

01

In this world, some fate is destined, as the old saying goes: "a hundred years to cultivate the same boat, a thousand years to cultivate a common sleep", some people are destined to be a couple in this life, some people are destined to be separated.

When two people are in love, they want to be with each other for a long time but did not think that love is easy, it is difficult to get along, when tea and oil and salt seep into life, many people from love separate.

Perhaps, some people are not destined to be a couple and love each other deeply, but it is difficult to escape the parting, after the breakup, everyone's choice is different.

Some people still can not let go of the heart of the person, often contact each other, entangled in the past feelings, some people choose to take a big step forward, no longer contact, early started a new life.

Break up, in the end how to contact with the former, is a difficult problem, this time you should understand, you are not destined to do a couple, there can be no later, it is better to put it down.

02

Lulu and Chen Fan, in love for ten years, and both their families, and friends think they will get married, and become a couple, but I did not expect the last two people still broke up.

Two people's destiny, it seems to be destined, met on the Internet, in reality, love, in love, there are arguments, there are also sweet, they just spent ten years together in spring and autumn.

During this period, Chen Fan would have found a good job, but this also means that the two people are about to start a long-distance relationship, he thought deeply about it or chose to give up work and stay with her.

At the age of twenty-something, we are all willing to give up what is important to us for the sake of the person we love so much.

However, their sweetness did not last all the time, even if it is more romantic, more ritualistic love, will become dull.

The first time I saw him, I was in love with him, but he didn't move at all, he always said he would wait.

Chen Fan did not stay, he knew that the relationship came to an end, after the breakup, they still retain a tacit understanding between them, although the two did not delete each other's contact information, but also do not contact.

Since there is no chance to be a couple, no chance to walk together for the rest of their lives, then do it back to strangers, from then on, no more contact!

03

Even if you want TA again, don't dwell on it, learn to disconnect.

There is a saying that this is a popular world to leave, but we are not good at saying goodbye, after listening to it, really think deeply.

Some people come into our lives unannounced and leave in a hurry, but we fall in love, and we can't say goodbye.

The fact is, you will have this idea that even if two people split up, this life is not destined to be a couple, can still be friends, in two people have nothing to do, can still chat frequently.

And, people who have loved, can not do friends, TA will not be willing to return to the position of friends, if not a couple, it is a stranger.

Some people may feel cruel, but isn't love like this? Love when we imagine growing old together, but not all of us can have this luck, more or fate, such a situation how do? Is it the right thing to do to keep stalking?

Forget it, since you can not do a couple, then do passers-by from now on, do not pester the people you love, the result will only make two people more painful, can not forget the past.

And TA disconnect, you can forget the pain sooner, TA can also start a new life, so good for each other, don't understand.

From now on, break off the connection with TA, after who do not contact who, who do not entangle who, each good.

04

Not ambiguous, do not cross the line, so very good.

The couple that broke up, even if they did not make a couple, can not erase the good memories of the two people who were together.

However, some people broke up, but began to break up with the former couple, even though the words are revealed as ambiguous, not friends, not lovers, keep such an unclear relationship, really unnecessary.

This is not good for each other, you can choose not to delete the former contact information, love is gone, there is love in, even if the TA is still in your We Chat list, there is nothing, but you must understand, TA and you no longer have a relationship.

Even if you occasionally need to contact, you should have a sense of proportion, not make the thing, and not be ambiguous with each other, which will only make two people more entangled.

And if there is a new partner around each other, it must respect the views of the incumbent, not casually and TA contact, so the contact will only make the incumbent unhappy, and your mood will not be good.

Two people are not destined to be a couple or do not get together, even if there is each other's number, but also remember that two people in contact do not cross the line, do not ambiguous, so very good.

05

The "flowery years" has this line: "I believe that in addition to loneliness, fate is another reason for love between men and women because fate makes two lonely hearts combined love called true love."

Love is the need for fate, fate is destined, and fate allows two people to meet and love each other, but not everyone can have this fate, there is a kind of destiny without points.

In life, some people walk and scatter, maybe TA had poured a lot of love into you, and you did not cherish it, or maybe TA is the wrong person, you are not destined to be a couple.

No matter what the reason for you to go from love to separate, you should understand that you have no way back to go, there is a word called broken mirror is difficult to reunite, even if the reconciliation, to each other is also hurt.

Since they have been separated, it is best not to contact each other again, even if you still do not want to delete TA, black TA, that in your mutual contact, there must be a sense of boundaries.

Yesterday with your people may forever remain in yesterday, even if you can not forget, can not go back to the old days, why not stop missing, or live their own life now?