Husband and wife is not really love, see the three places at home, at a glance

Some people say: "Marriage is the best witness, not oath, not ring, but home."

Home, is the place where the intersection between husband and wife most.

It's like a big life recorder, recording every little bit about marriage.

Although never words, it is the most true reflection of married life.

If a couple is really in love, just look at these three places at home, it will be clear.

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Heard a saying: "The temperature of the kitchen, the most can reflect the temperature of marriage."

A meal of porridge, though ordinary, is also the most soothing.

In those POTS and pans collision sound, three meals and four seasons of time, feelings are also imperceptibly close.

And the kitchen without the smell of fireworks, seemingly quiet, but let lovers gradually estranged.

Emotional mentor @Zhou Xiaopeng once shared such a story:

One of her former classmates married a rich, white woman.

The two are typical beauty and talent, married for several years still seem to be very sweet.

Until one day, Zhou Xiaopeng was invited to visit the family's villa.

As soon as she entered, she felt the magnificence of the decoration, whether it was furniture or accessories, all very exquisite.

But the strange thing was that their kitchen was so clean and tidy that everything looked brand new.

Zhou Xiaopeng could not help asking, "How does your family clean the kitchen? How can it be so clean?"

The male student smiled a little awkwardly and replied: "I have more social intercourse, generally eat out. She either orders takeout or eats out."

At that moment, Zhou Xiaopeng suddenly felt that the relationship between his wife and his wife was not as good as it seemed.

No, more than a year later, the two actually divorced.

In the comments section, one post received a lot of likes: "Marriage needs love, but also food."

Yes, a family without fireworks, how can hold up a lifetime of long love?

When the passion fades, who is not busy with their own work, each have their own rush?

Can sit together to have a meal, is the most valuable romance in the ordinary.

I think of a video I picked up a while ago.

A woman surnamed Wang in Baoding, Hebei province, captured footage of her husband mopping the kitchen floor.

Ms. Wang said she usually does the cooking while her husband cleans up.

But is an ordinary life scene, but can not stop the overflow of happiness.

Don't look down on the kitchen this side of the small world, it can let the marriage fall into the actual place to go, but also in the dull days to give birth to joy.

Don't have to fire every day, but don't forget to occasionally add some fireworks to it, you wash vegetables, I wash the dishes; You cook and I'll make the soup.

Those household chores, a person to do is a burden, two people to do is to share, when the kitchen becomes hot, feelings will become warmer.

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On the Internet, there was a topic called "What moment made you decide to get a divorce?"

Among them, netizen @cicada's post is very impressive.

It took her three years to get married to her husband, who was nice but had terrible habits.

Every time you take a shower, you like to throw your clothes around, even your underwear.

And then they leave, often leaving a mess in the bathroom for their friends to clean up.

Netizens also said many times, although he verbally agreed, but the next time still repeated repeated teachings.

On one occasion, a netizen had severe menstrual pain and asked her husband to help wash two pieces of clothes that needed to be washed by hand in the bathroom.

The husband said good, good, but people have not moved.

She fell asleep because she was not feeling well. When she woke up, her husband was already playing video games after taking a bath.

Netizens entered the bathroom only to find that it was still a mess: underwear socks thrown on the ground, toothpaste foam stuck to the mirror, and the two pieces of clothes to wash by hand, still intact soaking in the basin.

At that moment, she just felt so wronged that she didn't want to live with that man any more.

Some people say that the net friend is too much drama, but who knows, in that small bathroom, how many times she has been disappointed and sad?

As the saying goes, "Details can really ruin a seemingly peaceful relationship."

A 100-degree glass of water never gets cold in an instant.

Disappointment and not love are accumulated, the person to turn away, in fact, has been wandering in the wind for a long time.

I saw this video:

A man in Zhengzhou, Henan province, takes the initiative to clean his wife's long hair off the floor every time she takes a bath because she has lost a lot of hair.

And never complain, just blame shampoo is not good, how to let the wife lost so much hair?

It was also a small thing, but it was envied by all.

Toilet but square inch, but hiding too much sincerity and friendship.

Married life is not a movie, it doesn't need so much earth-shattering.

Maybe just squeezing toothpaste for your partner in the morning, cleaning water stains on the mirror, or even lifting the toilet seat for your partner's convenience are the most touching rituals in love.

Be less critical and more tolerant in the minutiae of life; Less complaining, more understanding, is the recipe for lasting love.

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There is a popular joke on the Internet: "The furthest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but a couple sleeping in the same bedroom with their backs to their backs playing with their phones."

Sounds like a bit of fun, but I do not know how many couples true portrayal?

In this is the most intimate bedroom, but the day like neighbors.

Although still sleeping in the same bed, the heart seems to be across the Pacific Ocean.

You check your Douyin, I play my game, no longer communicate with each other, also rarely disturb each other.

Cold is cold, love is light; Far away, home is scattered.

Silence is the enemy of marriage, happy marriage, the bedroom is always sound.

I remember the variety show "My daughter", there is a scene let me unforgettable.

Jiao asked Papi Jiang how she and her husband, Lao Hu, managed to maintain their relationship when they were both so busy that they felt like roommates.

Papi replied that no matter how busy they are at work, they always spend half an hour or even longer talking before going to bed.

We didn't talk about anything important, like what was funny today or what the cat did.

Jiao Junyan listened only to leave a sentence:

Then the happiness of your marriage depends not only on luck, but also on business wisdom.

The so-called happiness: is about in that exclusive two people in the bedroom, there are endless family stories, endless daily sharing, a willing to listen, a willing to respond with heart.

Rather than each side, the other side, with different frequency, bed with different heart, ignore each other's emotions.

Those sweet hours in the bedroom, whether it is a hug before bed or a gentle goodnight, some communication, some interaction, is the best for marriage.

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I agree with the saying, "The walls of a hospital hear more prayers than a church; Farewell stations have witnessed more sincere feelings than wedding halls.

Some places are filled with answers.

Like home, it is not just a place for our physical rest, but also an emotional harbor.

The smell of fireworks in the kitchen, the most warm people, household chores, to support the trivial daily.

The details and bits in the bathroom are evidence that couples care about each other and cherish each other.

The laughter and laughter in the bedroom, is the best cement of feelings, can wash away the weariness and dust of the lover's heart.

May you meet a good friend who knows cold and warm in this long world of mortals.

Accompany you three meals four seasons, and you have to say endless topic, always hold you in the palm of your hand, in that place called home, full of traces of your love.

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~This is Antoine, and I hope you find pleasure in each of my articles~